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confident2255

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So my ex and I were together for a year. We had a really special relationship. We are each other's first love, first serious relationship, she was my best friend, and we went through so much together for how young we were.

 

Well she broke up with me because she wasn't feeling the same (we were LDR but I saw her every 2-3 weeks). And we were on and off for about 6 months. She's gotten with other guys, I've gotten with other girls, but she always seems to come back to me.

 

However, one day we were texting and she didn't respond to me. She snapchatted me a couple of times but I did not respond. Fast forward a month, she texted me saying "happy birthday (my name) <3<3<3" And I just said thank you and that was it.

 

Fast forward another month and she texts me saying "Hey how've you been?" Me being stupid, I responded and we just caught up. Then she stopped responding at 9pm and texted me this morning saying sorry and she was busy at a dance.

 

I know she does not want me back because she's going away for college soon and doesn't want to be tied down. I've been thinking about not responding at all and just moving on. Then again I'm also thinking about how much I miss her and want to see her :( I really would like to contact her later on in life if I do decide to move on. What should I do?

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Scarlett.O'hara Established Member

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Keep trying for what exactly? To hear about the new guys she starts dating when she goes off to college? If you remain friends that is what you have to prepare yourself for.

 

I know it is hard to let go, but if you think it is going to hurt too much then you need to move on.

 

Do what feels right for you.

Jack1234 New Member

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I know this will be tough to hear, but unless you live in the same town as her it won't work out. She's at the age of exploration, and the grass is always greener with pretty girls at that age. I'd go strictly no contact until you find another girl. Once you've been dating for a month, then reach out to her if you still feel like it. You won't be nearly as hurt if you find out she's seeing other guys.

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