Jubawa Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 Hi I've been on 2 dates with this girl, which from my POV went really well and was promising. So we agreed to meet up for a 3rd date. However, about 3 hours before I was supposed to pick her up, she sent me a text to cancel it because "she completely forgot about it and hasn't been feeling very well". She actually sent me that text after I bumped into her in a supermarket, while I was doing some shopping. Now I'll admit I was (or am) into her but I'm wondering if that is the case for her. We rescheduled our previous date because she fell asleep when we were supposed to meet and I had to wait for her for over 2 hours (luckily we don't live far from each other). For me it's starting to look like I'm wasting my time with this girl who seems to be careless and to be honest is sending me mixed messages. Could I get some advice or someone's point of view?
smackie9 Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 Hah she isn't careless, she's making up stupid excuses so she can meet up with someone else. Or she was with someone else. Say bubbbbbye.. 2
Scarlett.O'hara Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 Lack of interest or disrespectful attitude.. take your pick. It doesn't matter what way you look at it, you are wasting your time on this girl because she doesn't respect you. You teach people how to treat you, and if you let her get away with cancelling last minute with pathetic excuses (which is becoming a pattern now) it will continue to happen. If you want a relationship with someone decent, who treats others with respect, I suggest you delete her number and move on. 1
Author Jubawa Posted January 16, 2016 Author Posted January 16, 2016 I'm actually thinking of leaving it there. I just want to be sure that I'm being reasonable and not overreacting. I only replied "okay hope you get better", with no intention of contacting her back. A friend of mine told me that she might want me to chase her (as in playing hard to get) but I see no logic there.
TheNextLawyer Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 Still send out the odd feeler.. but otherwise try maybe to know someone as a friend without ever being totally BFF.. then catch them when they have that 'hungry' time of the month
SSM3 Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 Hi I've been on 2 dates with this girl, which from my POV went really well and was promising. So we agreed to meet up for a 3rd date. However, about 3 hours before I was supposed to pick her up, she sent me a text to cancel it because "she completely forgot about it and hasn't been feeling very well". She actually sent me that text after I bumped into her in a supermarket, while I was doing some shopping. Now I'll admit I was (or am) into her but I'm wondering if that is the case for her. We rescheduled our previous date because she fell asleep when we were supposed to meet and I had to wait for her for over 2 hours (luckily we don't live far from each other). For me it's starting to look like I'm wasting my time with this girl who seems to be careless and to be honest is sending me mixed messages. Could I get some advice or someone's point of view? Sorry mate, but sack her off.
nightshift Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 I agree with the others. Even if she had any interest, she's obviously incredibly inconsiderate. I'd just leave things where you did and not text or call her again.
Space Ritual Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 Hi I've been on 2 dates with this girl, which from my POV went really well and was promising. So we agreed to meet up for a 3rd date. However, about 3 hours before I was supposed to pick her up, she sent me a text to cancel it because "she completely forgot about it and hasn't been feeling very well". She actually sent me that text after I bumped into her in a supermarket, while I was doing some shopping. Now I'll admit I was (or am) into her but I'm wondering if that is the case for her. We rescheduled our previous date because she fell asleep when we were supposed to meet and I had to wait for her for over 2 hours (luckily we don't live far from each other). For me it's starting to look like I'm wasting my time with this girl who seems to be careless and to be honest is sending me mixed messages. Could I get some advice or someone's point of view? You mean she couldn't tell you face to face in the supermarket, and had to send you a text? Wow, that is all you need to know right there. Move on. 1
IronZ Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 You mean she couldn't tell you face to face in the supermarket, and had to send you a text? Wow, that is all you need to know right there. Move on. I'm glad someone else mentioned it. I was thinking this same thing. It's one thing for her to be careless or just not interested, but this makes her seem flaky as hell too. She bumps into you the day of the date and she doesn't even let you know she can't make it later for the date? And it's the second time she's canceled on you. Don't waste your time.
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