em88 Posted June 6, 2005 Posted June 6, 2005 this is my 4th day of NC. im planning to call my exbf tom. i know all of you are prob screaming -dont break NC! but i really feel that i need to talk to him to straighten things out. not really for anything else but to talk and see if we can give it another shot. i know i am prob setting myself up for heartbreak again but i feel i need to do this. and im really scared. and i dont know how to approach it. but no, im not going to change my mind and not break NC becuase i feel it is something that i will regret if i dont do it. any thoughts? please dont be too harsh..
Angeleyez2583 Posted June 6, 2005 Posted June 6, 2005 You could do that. I don't know your whole situation, but 4 days isn't a lot of time to give someone. Maybe give it a few more days or a week to see how you feel. You should have some time to rationalize your thoughts. Calling your ex may not be a good idea, but it could be as well. I'm a strong advocater of "if he/she truely loves you, they will come back". Maybe give him some more time to miss you and see if he realizes he's made a mistake. If he doesn't call, he's not worth it! Goodluck!
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