nim79 Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 Dear all, I was in relationship with a girl 5 years back. we broke up and it was all my fault. I did break up and I did not even contact her for long. I still like and love her a lot. When I started contacting her on FB. she becomes friend on FB but she has not moved in her life. she got married but not at all happy. I want to see her happy at any cost. I love her and cant see her in pain. she is pissed of and in pain. I do not know what to do to make her happy ? Please advise. She talks to me sometime in friendly manner but very next moment she becomes damn angry to start fighting me.
Cm01 Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 She's married and its been five years, do nothing. Her problems and anger are likely beyond you by now. 2
wow123 Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 Wouldn't speak to her unless marriage ends. Nothing good can come of your current situation.
theredpill Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 Leave her alone, she's not for you to fix and if I was her husband and found out, you'd be in trouble.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 Tell her to talk to her husband about all her problems. And then do not speak to her again. You're playing with fire in a major way here.
Author nim79 Posted January 17, 2016 Author Posted January 17, 2016 I know..its too late now. only thing I want her to be happy in her life. do not know what to do? I apologize many times for my did. she says she can not forgive me at any time. This hurts a lot. I do not want anything except her happiness. Please help.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 17, 2016 Posted January 17, 2016 No, it's not too late. Cut her off and stop being her secret text-buddy. I don't think you're going to find anyone on here who will give you tips about carrying on with a married woman. Her happiness doesn't depend on you. Don't fool yourself into thinking you're somehow this beacon of love and light for her. Give that energy to someone who actually deserves it.
wow123 Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 I know..its too late now. only thing I want her to be happy in her life. do not know what to do? I apologize many times for my did. she says she can not forgive me at any time. This hurts a lot. I do not want anything except her happiness. Please help. Everyone has told you what to do. Listen or don't.
mightycpa Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 I know..its too late now. only thing I want her to be happy in her life. do not know what to do? I apologize many times for my did. she says she can not forgive me at any time. This hurts a lot. I do not want anything except her happiness. Please help.Start sending her checks every month, and tell her to spend the money on anything she wants. Two good things will come from this: 1) You will make her happier and happier every month you send a big, fat check. 2) You'll soon disabuse yourself of this silly thinking.
wow123 Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 Pay for her and her husband to go on a cruise.
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