Kristine Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 Okay I'm not a teenager yet when it comes to sex I tend to act that way initially. How long is the average wait time for a middle aged woman to wait before hitting it? Because I can hold out like the best of them but I really don't want to. So what's the norm?
Buddhist Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 There isn't one for a mature woman. It depends on you and the guy in question. I don't think anyone is expecting a middle aged female to play virgin or saving it for marriage. And [hopefully] any middle aged man you might date would be over the whole judging you based on how quickly you jump in the sack. One would hope someone around your age would have developed a whole pile of maturity by now. I've never had sex on the first date merely because I can't jump on it, until we have some sort of connection going. That's what works for me. What has worked for you in the past?
CalvinJ23 Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 even if there is a norm, i wouldn't worry too much about it. i'm going to be cliche and suggest you have sex with someone when you feel comfortable with them in that way as opposed to putting a timer on it
IronZ Posted January 16, 2016 Posted January 16, 2016 This is an interesting topic for me as well because I've been on 5 and soon to be 6 dates with the girl I'm currently with, and it still hasn't gotten to the point of sex. I think everyone here is right in saying the timing has to just be right. You have to feel that comfort and chemistry with someone before you advance to that level. I've had flings before where this has happened within a couple hours of meeting, and then situations like I'm in now where it's been a month and still nothing. I don't think there is a norm with timing. It all depends on the 2 people and how quickly they gravitate towards each other.
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