Stuey141 Posted January 15, 2016 Posted January 15, 2016 Bit of an odd one .. Been messaging this girl for 3 weeks, been going so well and really got on well. Last week we arranged to meet this weekend. I messaged her today, Friday, asking what the plans were tomorrow!? She said I'm busy tomorrow was only free tonight, left it a bit late!! I said I have left the weekend free so could drive up tonight.. She said she is babysitting! I apologised and said I could meet her next week. She said she was looking forward to it but won't be a back up plan.. That's not the case that's why I asked what we were doing! I replied saying I'm happy to drive down next week and she hasn't replied!! Shall I just leave it now? Was such a good laugh so came out the blue..! She has been a little less chatty the last few days so not sure if that's because I hadn't mentioned the date or this is her way out!? Thanks
smudge21 Posted January 15, 2016 Posted January 15, 2016 You're trying to work out what she's thinking, and you'll never work that out. You have pretty much told her that you're wanting to see her and willing to come to her, other than that there's nothing much you can do. If she's changed her mind for whatever unknown reason, then nothing you do now will change it... apart from push her further away if you keep going on about meeting up. It's sad when we get along with people but they suddenly just change, but it happens. Leave it to her now and carry on with your life. If she contacts you then fair enough, if not, at least you tried.
Toodaloo Posted January 15, 2016 Posted January 15, 2016 Bit of an odd one .. Been messaging this girl for 3 weeks, been going so well and really got on well. Last week we arranged to meet this weekend. I messaged her today, Friday, asking what the plans were tomorrow!? She said I'm busy tomorrow was only free tonight, left it a bit late!! I said I have left the weekend free so could drive up tonight.. She said she is babysitting! I apologised and said I could meet her next week. She said she was looking forward to it but won't be a back up plan.. That's not the case that's why I asked what we were doing! I replied saying I'm happy to drive down next week and she hasn't replied!! Shall I just leave it now? Was such a good laugh so came out the blue..! She has been a little less chatty the last few days so not sure if that's because I hadn't mentioned the date or this is her way out!? Thanks Run. You do not want to meet this girl... Just trust me on this. 1
Author Stuey141 Posted January 17, 2016 Author Posted January 17, 2016 She just messaged me 'good weekend' What do I do.. I'm not sure I trust this girl
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