4blossoms Posted January 15, 2016 Posted January 15, 2016 I've been dating a new guy and so far we've had 2 dates. I can't figure out how he feels. For the first date we met at a bar and I noticed him smiling a lot and staring at me. When we said goodnight I kissed him on the cheek. We went on another date tonight to a museum (it was open late). It was fun and we just chatted and debated about nothing in particular. Then when the date ended and he had walked me to my bus stop there were people walking all around and kind of bright lights. I was a little red from the wine I drank on an empty stomach earlier (it wasn't pretty). So, it was an awkward place to kiss and I decided to lean in and he kissed me really fast and lightly--it was more like a tiny peck. Then we went our separate ways. Do you think he likes me or no? If a guy really likes you, wouldn't he want to kiss you? Or did I blow it by being too aggressive by going for the kiss?
Nilfiry Posted January 15, 2016 Posted January 15, 2016 First, as far as liking goes, you can be certain that at the least he has good impressions of you. You know, you would not generally try to go on dates with someone you have no interest in, right (unless blind dates are your thing)? Secondly, some people like more aggressive partners. Besides, it was a playful kiss after drinking. It probably will not weigh too heavily, or leave a good impression at best. I think you are doing fine. The best way to know is try for another date. 1
Grewd Posted January 15, 2016 Posted January 15, 2016 If I'm getting it correctly you leaned in and he kissed you? If he kissed you I don't understand how you can doubt he's into you? Sure it was light and quick, but still a kiss. I'm a man, I wouldn't kiss a woman I'm not interested in. Unless of course she kissed me so quickly and unpredictability that I wouldn't have time to react. However you leaned in, implying you didn't do it aggressively at all and left plenty of time for him to decide and act. You did it correctly and it went well, just relax and enjoy your time with him. 1
CollegeKid101 Posted January 15, 2016 Posted January 15, 2016 He sounds like he's a bit nervous as he didn't kiss you first, but that's not a bad sign! He absolutely seems like he likes you, he wouldn't have taken you out on a second date. Good luck! 1
almond Posted January 15, 2016 Posted January 15, 2016 Text him and tell him you had a great time at the museum, and would love to see him again. If he texts back and asks you out, he's interested. No point wondering to the point of posting on a forum, asking other people to speculate. Just text him and you'll have your answer within minutes. No need to torture yourself with guessing games! 1
YourCupOfTea Posted January 15, 2016 Posted January 15, 2016 (edited) If you don't know, how can we know!? Just wait and see. You can send him a 'thank you i had fun ' text after the date and see how he responds. And then just see if he asks you out again. Give it some time, and if he does not, and you really like him you can always ask him out. I always try not to speculate about what other people may be thinking, but just focus on what i think and want, and act on that. Edited January 15, 2016 by YourCupOfTea 1
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