boompapa Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 My GF of 8 months told me she needs a couple of days not to decompress. She told me repeatedly that she loves me truly and just needs a couple of days. When I asked if she still wants to be in the relationshio she said yes. My friends tell me I'm being stupid for thinking she wants to breakup. Am I an idiot for thinking she does?
wow123 Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 It could go either way. My ex told me the same thing after a night she described as amazing. That was the last time I saw her which was about 3 months ago. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Hope it works out foe you. Just make sure you give her all the space in the world.
Thistooshallpass21 Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 It could go either way. My ex told me the same thing after a night she described as amazing. That was the last time I saw her which was about 3 months ago. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Hope it works out foe you. Just make sure you give her all the space in the world. Spot on! The best you can do is hope for the best and prepare for the worst. I really hope things go well for you here
ExpatInItaly Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 In what context did she say this? How has the relationship been up to this point? It's hard to give insight because your post doesn't really give much information. Can you clarify for us?
Nilfiry Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 Usually when that comes out, it is never a good thing. She clearly has problems she does not want to tell you about or she is just being indecisive and having second thoughts. While these may not necessarily spell doom on your relationship, you should remain ever vigilant! I agree that you need to stay open but do not have expectations.
DrMario Posted January 15, 2016 Posted January 15, 2016 My ex said she needed time and I needed to move out but the otherwise the relationship would be fine, yeah she broke up with me and I haven't seen her since. My sister said she was mad with me and she needed some time, yeah she's long gone and haven't heard from her since. But maybe your the exception to the rule, maybe...
frigginlost Posted January 15, 2016 Posted January 15, 2016 When a woman asks for time, she is done with the relationship. I know a lot of guys who went through this. Odd. My girlfriend years back wanted a little time to decompress. Didn't talk with her for a week and a half. We ended up married 8 months later and spent close to 20 years together. OP, As others have said, hope for the best but plan for the worst. Keep moving forward. Give her space...
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