hasaquestion Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 What else is there to talk about, though? How else do you first-message a girl on online dating WITHOUT addressing her interests and trying to find a way to relate to them? This is reductionist but at the end of the day it boils down roughly to this: 1. She thinks you're cute/hot and you can say anything that isn't outright rude or lazy to start a conversation and you'll be fine. 2. She is straight up not interested. 3. The gray area. Pouring your time into crafting messages for a small minority (girls whose panties get wet talking about Kurt Vonnegut) within a minority (the ones who are in the gray area to begin with)? To me that seems like a lousy way to allocate your time and effort. Either save some time and look for someone who is in group 1, or spend your time on self-improvement which will make you happier and translate into a more appealing lifestyle and more sustainable success in that grey area.
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