maryslamb Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 My ex and I was together for six years off and on. A few years ago we broke up because I couldnt fully trust him. and I had my reasons. Well, when we broke up, he immediately started dating this girl, and months later they got engadged and was planning on moving to California. I found that out through a mutal friend. I cut all communication with him as I was hurt, betrayed, and sickly. I cried everyday, couldnt eat, sleep, and was a zombie at home and work. After almost 9 months of not communicating with each other he contacted me and I answered. He stated that him and the girl arent together and she pretty much forced him to get married. And before she started to spend lots of moeny on the wedding, he called it off. ( Im not sure how much of that is true, but that what he told me) But he ended up still moving to California. So him and I keep in contact with each other every single day. I have went to California to see him a few times, and he has came back to his hometown and we spend a lot of time together. We pretty much act like we are together, but we're not. I love him sooo much, so just being strictly friends isnt an option for me. My mechanism to not deal with my feelings is to stop communicating with him. but after a few weeks or so, I give in and answer. He just recetly left to go back to California, and here I am stuck, feeling empty, and emotional again. He sent me a few text messages saying he loves me and cant wait to see me again. But I havent responded back. Do you think I am immature to continue to stop communication? Im just so torn again. Can someone shed some light on going back and forth with and ex ?
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