Dente Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 Theres this girl at my job i dont work with her directly i see her from time to time and we have quick convo's but i know the chemistry is there in the way we chat. Today i saw her and started chatting for a few and i randomly ask if she was married because i saw a ring on her she then replied not even close and laugh. The real reason i asked her to see if she was single but didnt even give me i have a boyfriend. Should i ask her out for coffee next time? Or what?
Author Dente Posted January 14, 2016 Author Posted January 14, 2016 Theres this girl at my job i dont work with her directly i see her from time to time and we have quick convo's but i know the chemistry is there in the way we chat. Today i saw her and started chatting for a few and i randomly ask if she was married because i saw a ring on her she then replied not even close and laugh. The real reason i asked her to see if she was single but didnt even give me i have a boyfriend. Should i ask her out for coffee next time? Or what?[/quote Anyone??
MightyQuinn Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 Go for it! The worst that could happen is she says no, and at least you tried. But she could say yes, too
Author Dente Posted January 14, 2016 Author Posted January 14, 2016 Go for it! The worst that could happen is she says no, and at least you tried. But she could say yes, too If she had a boyfriend she would have mention it right away? With me asking her if shes married she knows im interested in her right?
smudge21 Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 Stop trying to work out what she's thinking and just ask her for a coffee. If she says no, then you're fine and you haven't spent ages overthinking it to the point of madness. If she says yes, then.. er.. well I doubt you'll need to come back here. 1
Nilfiry Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 Yes, go for it. Even if she says no, that does not mean all of your chances have gone down the drain either. Things can still work out in the long run. You pretty much have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
smackie9 Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 man alive you should of just asked her out right there. ALWAYS seize the moment.... What should have happened: You "Are you married?" Her "lol not even close!" You "Well if that's the case, how about we go for a coffee later?"
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