ff12343 Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 Why would a girl block you on social media but not your #?
Wewon Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 Why would a girl block you on social media but not your #? Being an ex and depending on the entanglements, she may not want you to see her goings on in social media, but may still need to have an open line of communication with you. 2
Author ff12343 Posted January 13, 2016 Author Posted January 13, 2016 Her ig is only selfies. This is just a girl i knew for a few months. And her profile is public so all i need to do is log out and then i can see it. So weird.
Gretzky99 Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 Blocking a phone number is usually a very extreme step. I've blocked ex's before, but never gone so far as to block their number. One, I don't even know how to do that, and two, they would really have to annoy me or scare me by doing stalker type of stuff for me to even think of doing that. Also, how do u even know they haven't blocked your phone #?
ExpatInItaly Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 Blocking a phone number is usually a very extreme step. I've blocked ex's before, but never gone so far as to block their number. One, I don't even know how to do that, and two, they would really have to annoy me or scare me by doing stalker type of stuff for me to even think of doing that. Also, how do u even know they haven't blocked your phone #? I was wondering the same thing. With many phones, you wouldn't know you'd been blocked. The only time I blocked an ex on social media was when I knew he'd have a fit seeing a new guy posting on my wall or liking my pictures or something to that effect.
quattrob Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 OP, you sound alittle creepy if this is the girl which you hung out twice? and known for 2 weeks, it's extremely unhealthy for you to stalk her Social media especially after she has no interest in you. Find another girl that would want to be with you and want your attention instead of fantasizing/hoping for someone that isn't worth your time.
Author ff12343 Posted January 13, 2016 Author Posted January 13, 2016 Thanks. Appreciate it. Was more like 6-7 weeks of everyday talking. Had a legit friend there or so i thought.
Author ff12343 Posted January 13, 2016 Author Posted January 13, 2016 Also because im in denial that i got played. She states she didnt play games yet out of nowhere im blocked on ig but i texted her a question and she answered. Just difficult to let it go. Not a creeper.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 Also because im in denial that i got played. She states she didnt play games yet out of nowhere im blocked on ig but i texted her a question and she answered. Just difficult to let it go. Not a creeper. Well, who would actually admit that they do? Actions speak louder than words. Just go No Contact. You're having difficulty letting go because you're still checking her social media and texting her.
quattrob Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 Also because im in denial that i got played. She states she didnt play games yet out of nowhere im blocked on ig but i texted her a question and she answered. Just difficult to let it go. Not a creeper. You're naive to believe everything that comes out everyone's mouth. You're just totally in denial.
autumnjess Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 We have this addiction to social media today that trumps communication with phones. People can have a very personal relationship with social media and post their everyday events, thoughts, interactions. Its a virtual diary. She blocked you to exclude you from finding out about what she's up to, who she's talking to, what she's doing. You don't get that access through a phone text or call. She is actually helping you move on as it seems that you have a compulsion to a 'quick' fix to your relationship break up. I don't think she is playing games, she is just naturally detaching from you after a breakup. I don't believe that you need to block someone unless they are being disruptive, lack an understanding of what personal space is or are being disrespectful. Are you doing any of these things? Leave her alone, don't talk to her. Give it a couple of weeks and re-engaged when you have given her some space and privacy.
Author ff12343 Posted January 14, 2016 Author Posted January 14, 2016 You're naive to believe everything that comes out everyone's mouth. You're just totally in denial. I am apparantly.
Author ff12343 Posted January 14, 2016 Author Posted January 14, 2016 We have this addiction to social media today that trumps communication with phones. People can have a very personal relationship with social media and post their everyday events, thoughts, interactions. Its a virtual diary. She blocked you to exclude you from finding out about what she's up to, who she's talking to, what she's doing. You don't get that access through a phone text or call. She is actually helping you move on as it seems that you have a compulsion to a 'quick' fix to your relationship break up. I don't think she is playing games, she is just naturally detaching from you after a breakup. I don't believe that you need to block someone unless they are being disruptive, lack an understanding of what personal space is or are being disrespectful. Are you doing any of these things? Leave her alone, don't talk to her. Give it a couple of weeks and re-engaged when you have given her some space and privacy. Thats not gonna work. Last text from me was i told her she had my word that i wasnt going to contact her ever again. Balls in her court now or should i say someone elses balls are in her mouth now. Done deal. Thanks for the future advice.
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