When to tell her.?

[frank1]

Had argument with ex.. Was tryna talk to her and she just started to makt things difficult. Wasnt so much of an argument just a heated discussion. I had some stuff to say to her that I didn't get a chance to. And I'm pretty sure I'm not gonna meet her so I will have to msg her.

 

When should I send it?

 

P.S i am gonna send it. Just need to know when.

[d0nnivain]

If she was already an EX when you argued, just let it go. You are beating a dead horse.

 

 

If the argument in Q caused you to break up but you want to reconcile, do reach out, apologize & attempt to move forward.

 

 

If you just want to say your piece because she shut you out, recognize that ship sailed & you have to let it go. You can replay the conversation / argument in your head & envision yourself making your points but you can't actually get that moment back.

[lilmissjava]

Situations like this likely never result in your quest for closure. Don't be the annoying ex and don't send the message.

 

Silence is the best message.

 

No contact and move on.

[Toodaloo]

Frank.

 

I have read some of your other comments.

 

This girl is just not worth it.

 

All those things you want to say. It will not make you feel better as it will roll like water off a ducks back on her.

 

You can't hurt her or make her see sense as she holds no feeling and no respect for you.

 

This could be for several reasons but the end result is the same.

 

This is one of those time where you just stop calling. You leave her to do her thing and instead of thinking about her you concentrate on doing your thing.

 

Leave her alone and instead concentrate on doing things that you feel will enhance your well being and turn you into the man YOU want to be.