Shanex Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 This was probably discussed a lot before on LS (as almost every other dating or relationship questions) but I wanted to ask anyway... A few weeks ago, I was hanging out with some friends and the discussion turned to the qualities that men look for in women. We came up with a short list (in no specific order) and ranked every girl that we knew. The higher the score; the higher the relationship/marriage potential. Unfortunately, we could only think of 3 or 4 who scored at least 5/9. We only knew of one girl who had all of these qualities. 1.) Attractiveness 2.) Good in Bed 3.) Smart/Intelligent 4.) Interesting 5.) Respectable 6.) Good Attitude/Personality 7.) Has Money/Good Job 8.) Same Geographic Area 9.) Likes To Have Fun What qualities do you look for in a mate? Is there another quality that we have overlooked? 1-3 = one night stand 4-6 = girlfriend potential 7-9 = marriage potential
ltjg45 Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 Well, I certainly hasn't met a single woman that would cross out at least 5 qualities off of that list. But my values is a bit different since not every one of them has the same weight. #1 is required as far as I am concerned. If I am not attracted to her, the rest doesn't matter. #2 is debatable since I am a virgin. The only thing I ask of her is that she isn't selfish in bed. Her amount of sexual experience has no weight. Obviously, most guys would ask for more than that from her, especially at my age. #3 is also debatable for other guys. For me, it is important and a high preference. For others, an intelligent woman would scare them to the hills since most guys is actually pretty dumb..... #4 is also debatable depending on the interests of the guy in question. If her interests doesn't match with his interests, then it is not a match. #7 is not required for me since I am still working at a low-end retail job. Besides, I am more concerned with how she spends and handles her money than how much she truly makes. I prefer a low-wage woman that doesn't recklessly spend than one that makes 6 digits a year and can barely put any money in a savings account.
sunking101 Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 Physical attraction Mental attraction Chemistry Wit Intelligence We're both into each other just as much Honesty Empathy Consideration A compromising nature Loyalty
JustGettingBy Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 Physical attraction Mental attraction Chemistry Wit Intelligence We're both into each other just as much Honesty Empathy Consideration A compromising nature Loyalty pretty much this as well.
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