red_card Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 Hi i am in rell with girl (1month). she is 17 and i'm 22. when she backed to home from school first she sent a message always. but she doesn't text first 5-6 days! even didn't text her 2days because and she too! do you know why she doesn't text me?
Blanco Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 She's probably fretting over the fact that she only has another year and change before she needs to find her senior prom dress.
Author red_card Posted January 12, 2016 Author Posted January 12, 2016 is this an idiom? i am not good at english. please response clear and easy. thanks dear <3
Redhead14 Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 is this an idiom? i am not good at english. please response clear and easy. thanks dear <3 We can't tell you why she doesn't text or respond to you. We can't read minds. Why don't you call her instead of texting? Or maybe she lost her phone or it's broken?
ExpatInItaly Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 No, I don't know why she doesn't text you. A lot of girls wait for the man to initiate contact, especially early in the relationship. So call her.
Author red_card Posted January 12, 2016 Author Posted January 12, 2016 No she doesn't lost. her mother has my phone number too. see it: " No. Ask her. Maybe she is tired of your poor grammar skills. " one person said that in another forum! is that true? because i try to change my words every day ( new style to talking, talk about different type ant etc ). i take your advice, just guide me what i say when calling please? ( a good reason ) you know i am older than her, so if i tell bad reason then she thinks i can't live without her! sorry. i know you can't read my topic :-D
ExpatInItaly Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 No she doesn't lost. her mother has my phone number too. see it: " No. Ask her. Maybe she is tired of your poor grammar skills. " one person said that in another forum! is that true? because i try to change my words every day ( new style to talking, talk about different type ant etc ). i take your advice, just guide me what i say when calling please? ( a good reason ) you know i am older than her, so if i tell bad reason then she thinks i can't live without her! sorry. i know you can't read my topic :-D Is English your first language? I teach English as a Second Language and it doesn't appear English is your mother tongue - is it? If it is, yes, you need to work on your literacy skills. If it's not, most people will understand speaking a foreign language isn't easy (I speak two myself) and will be more forgiving of mistakes. But you can continue to improve by reviewing grammar and syntax. We can't tell you what to say when you call her. Why do you need a specific reason to call her if she's your girlfriend? This shouldn't be such a difficult step. Just ask her how she is, how her day went, and so on. We ladies want to know you're thinking about us and appreciate a call instead of always texting. Do you have much dating experience? 1
Author red_card Posted January 12, 2016 Author Posted January 12, 2016 Is English your first language? I teach English as a Second Language and it doesn't appear English is your mother tongue - is it? If it is, yes, you need to work on your literacy skills. If it's not, most people will understand speaking a foreign language isn't easy (I speak two myself) and will be more forgiving of mistakes. But you can continue to improve by reviewing grammar and syntax. We can't tell you what to say when you call her. Why do you need a specific reason to call her if she's your girlfriend? This shouldn't be such a difficult step. Just ask her how she is, how her day went, and so on. We ladies want to know you're thinking about us and appreciate a call instead of always texting. Do you have much dating experience? English is second my language. how you learn? ( what video ? or book? ) i need a reason because she likes a serious boy. even i never sent message to her sometimes for 12 hours ! after that she text me: i have good feeling you today!!! i love you!!!
ExpatInItaly Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 English is second my language. how you learn? ( what video ? or book? ) i need a reason because she likes a serious boy. even i never sent message to her sometimes for 12 hours ! after that she text me: i have good feeling you today!!! i love you!!! Ideally, lessons with a mother-tongue English speaker. If you can't do that, please consider getting a good grammar textbook to review the rules and make your communication better. I'd recommend English Grammar in Use, published by Cambridge University. Watch films in English with the subtitles in your native language to help you understand. Then watch them again with English subtitles. Is English her first language? I don't understand what you mean when you say she likes a serious boy. Can you explain? I think you need to be a lot more confident and contact her. Don't wait 12 hours to text her. That seems like you're not interested. Can I ask, is this a long-distance relationship? I ask because it doesn't sound like you have much opportunity to speak English, which leads me to believe you don't live in the same country as her.
d0nnivain Posted January 13, 2016 Posted January 13, 2016 Do you & she speak the same language? That is quite a life gap between you two. At 17 she is still in high school (perhaps you call it secondary school). At 22, you are old enough to have graduated from university & be out in the real world. She may have decided she wants to date a boy her own age. Her parents may have gotten involved & decided the age gap is too great. She may just be a flaky 17 year old kid. Do call her & talk with her. Ask her why she stopped contacting you. Go from there.
Author red_card Posted January 13, 2016 Author Posted January 13, 2016 Do you & she speak the same language? That is quite a life gap between you two. At 17 she is still in high school (perhaps you call it secondary school). At 22, you are old enough to have graduated from university & be out in the real world. She may have decided she wants to date a boy her own age. Her parents may have gotten involved & decided the age gap is too great. She may just be a flaky 17 year old kid. Do call her & talk with her. Ask her why she stopped contacting you. Go from there. yes we speak the same language. maybe she likes be with a boy her own age. but i don't understand she text me each minutes so suddenly she stopped after 1 month! i will call her today and let u know.
Author red_card Posted January 13, 2016 Author Posted January 13, 2016 Ideally, lessons with a mother-tongue English speaker. If you can't do that, please consider getting a good grammar textbook to review the rules and make your communication better. I'd recommend English Grammar in Use, published by Cambridge University. Watch films in English with the subtitles in your native language to help you understand. Then watch them again with English subtitles. Is English her first language? I don't understand what you mean when you say she likes a serious boy. Can you explain? I think you need to be a lot more confident and contact her. Don't wait 12 hours to text her. That seems like you're not interested. Can I ask, is this a long-distance relationship? I ask because it doesn't sound like you have much opportunity to speak English, which leads me to believe you don't live in the same country as her. no we talking same language. my meaning of 12 hours is ::: i didn't send any message for 3 times up to 12 hours. suddenly she called me and tell: i have good feeling to you and i love you. else she never said this sentence! i will call her , dear ExpatInItaly.
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