Nova83 Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 I work as a freelancer in different cities for months at a time, on my latest project I was working with a guy since September and we only spoke in passing. One night we randomly both ended up at same restaurant, he sat next to me and we hit it off and had so much to talk about and in common. We've been talking non stop sense, over or Christmas break and have hung out a dozen or so times over the span of a month. This last weekend we were intiment for the first time, the problem were having is that we only have two weeks left of the project, live in different cities, haven't discussed where things are going or if they are, and most importantly have been keeping our dating secret from rest of our coworkers. So I haven't seen him since Friday when we slept together, and we had plans this upcoming weekend. Last night, once again, we ran in to each other both of us with other coworkers. I acted aloof and casual as did he, but then when some of the female coworkers started blatantly flirting with him, it got under my skin. I didn't react at the time, but following I texted him drunk "jokes" about me interrupting his date and then at some point was lame enough to be like "look if you're not interested just say so,." He said he was interested but after a few tries of defusing the situation he stopped replying and I continued to say stupid things. This morning I woke up and apologized but he hasn't replied, and a portion of our crew will be out of cell service range for next two days! Which will be two days of pure agony on my end. I think it's in part because I don't know where we stand or other than him just saying "I like you" how he feels. We only have two weeks left and he's said I should visit him once were done, and has said he wants to keep seeing me. But I may have screwed it up last night laying on the jealousy. How do I salvage this?
PegNosePete Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 I think it's in part because I don't know where we stand or other than him just saying "I like you" how he feels. Call him up and tell him this. You need to know where you stand and that is why you acted a bit crazy. Communication prevents misunderstandings.
Gaeta Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 If I were you I would call and make an official apology. Then don't do anything else and leave it to life.
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