Buddhist Posted January 20, 2016 Posted January 20, 2016 Hmm, I was afraid of that.. I find asking men out very scary. In the past men usually made it very clear that they wanted to see me again. But then again, if I don't do anything and there is a possibility he thinks I'm not interested I will probably regret it later. So, I will gather my courage and text him tonight. Wish me luck! Well the risk of rejection to you is extremely low because he's already asked you out again, so you know he's interested. Your vague answer of I've got other plans honestly just sounds like a brush off and he's likely to view it that way unless you do something to convince him otherwise. If you'd been more specific such as said....well I'm going out with friends on saturday, or something similar it would not have been interpreted so readily as a lack of interest. Women often say "I have other plans" when they really mean...I'm not interested. If you wait for him to contact you he probably never will.
Author YourCupOfTea Posted January 20, 2016 Author Posted January 20, 2016 Well the risk of rejection to you is extremely low because he's already asked you out again, so you know he's interested. Your vague answer of I've got other plans honestly just sounds like a brush off and he's likely to view it that way unless you do something to convince him otherwise. If you'd been more specific such as said....well I'm going out with friends on saturday, or something similar it would not have been interpreted so readily as a lack of interest. Women often say "I have other plans" when they really mean...I'm not interested. If you wait for him to contact you he probably never will. thanks for your answer, but a lot of stuff happend already, and saturday we have our third date.
Buddhist Posted January 20, 2016 Posted January 20, 2016 thanks for your answer, but a lot of stuff happend already, and saturday we have our third date. Saw that too late! Happy for you that you made the effort. Hope it works out.
Author YourCupOfTea Posted January 25, 2016 Author Posted January 25, 2016 Hi, We went on the third date and it wassen't so good. I was really nervous because I'm starting to like the guy and it didn't go so well...There were some silences and I wassen't so comfortable. And after the date I saw that he updated his dating profile with some new pictures. I'm guessing that he didn't think the date went so well either.... It really bugs me, even though we have only been on three dates and I have really no right to be upset about it. I'm thinking about letting this one go. If he contacts me again, great. But I think I'm not going to put much more effort in this. It sucks!
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