Flamez Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 Long story short, met this girl in highschool (16) now 22. 6 year Anniversary tomorrow so im kinda thinking a bit. She broke up with me after she met someone in vegas that she ended up flying out shortly after our breakup to bang. ( fantasy type ****, no street smarts, barely knew this guy ) Weird thing is she cryed before she went saying she was gonna miss me etc. Had a history of cheating, of course i gave her more chances she deserved. ( so she thinks i will take her back at anytime, im assuming ) Came back i got her presents she ended up breaking things off saying she doesnt feel the same, its not you its me, i love you but im not in love with you. Been NC, begged a pleaded first week. So almost 2 months of strict NC. I havent pursued. Weird thing is the night she broke up with me she said i may change my mind or we can date again in a year or two. LOL. My old childhood-friend that is a female was like why dont you give him closure ( after 2 weeks from the breakup ) She goes 'im not READY to give him closure YET ) 'I may truthfully be back, but i dont wanna make him any promises' She also left her dirtbike at my house. ( for a reason to contact me im assuming ) Weird thing is 3 days ago, her friend followed me on instagram, i blocked my ex the first day she left. So im starting to think shes wondering whats going on in my life since i havent been contacting her... i dont know. Just wanted to vent.. everyone is telling me shes gonna be back one day... im getting stronger everyday... i did everything for this girl im not feeding my own ego, but i was a great boyfriend ( ive made my mistakes, but never was abusive nor had commitment issues ) Relationship became routine/boring i will admit that but we were living together since 17. She also told her friend she 'wanted to see what else is out there' LOL. Pretty sad. Just wanted to talk to some of you guys on LS
RySant Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 Now, I'll ask you a question. Would you really take someone like that back in your life? I honestly won't. LOL
Author Flamez Posted January 12, 2016 Author Posted January 12, 2016 (edited) I never said i would.. im leaning more towards no as time goes on. Me saying no will still be rough to be honest as she has/had amazing qualitys aside this and as i still love the girl deeply.. shes just realllllyy emotionally unstable.. IF she happens to try to work things out i dont know how its gonna go because it will be everything i wanna hear.. i personally dont know how i would go about this.. im not the type to be like **** you or anything like that as i myself wasnt built like that.. so any advice would be helpful.. Edited January 12, 2016 by Flamez
road Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 Long story short, met this girl in highschool (16) now 22. 6 year Anniversary tomorrow so im kinda thinking a bit. She broke up with me after she met someone in vegas that she ended up flying out shortly after our breakup to bang. ( fantasy type ****, no street smarts, barely knew this guy ) Weird thing is she cryed before she went saying she was gonna miss me etc. Had a history of cheating, of course i gave her more chances she deserved. ( so she thinks i will take her back at anytime, im assuming ) Came back i got her presents she ended up breaking things off saying she doesnt feel the same, its not you its me, i love you but im not in love with you. Been NC, begged a pleaded first week. So almost 2 months of strict NC. I havent pursued. Weird thing is the night she broke up with me she said i may change my mind or we can date again in a year or two. LOL. My old childhood-friend that is a female was like why dont you give him closure ( after 2 weeks from the breakup ) She goes 'im not READY to give him closure YET ) 'I may truthfully be back, but i dont wanna make him any promises' She also left her dirtbike at my house. ( for a reason to contact me im assuming ) Weird thing is 3 days ago, her friend followed me on instagram, i blocked my ex the first day she left. So im starting to think shes wondering whats going on in my life since i havent been contacting her... i dont know. Just wanted to vent.. everyone is telling me shes gonna be back one day... im getting stronger everyday... i did everything for this girl im not feeding my own ego, but i was a great boyfriend ( ive made my mistakes, but never was abusive nor had commitment issues ) Relationship became routine/boring i will admit that but we were living together since 17. She also told her friend she 'wanted to see what else is out there' LOL. Pretty sad. Just wanted to talk to some of you guys on LS What is this history that you speak of?
Author Flamez Posted January 14, 2016 Author Posted January 14, 2016 What is this history that you speak of? History throughout the relationship, jumping in bed with other guys. Physical, emotional cheating etc.
road Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 History throughout the relationship, jumping in bed with other guys. Physical, emotional cheating etc. History repeats itself to those who fail to learn from it.
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