MissingMyHubby Posted January 11, 2016 Posted January 11, 2016 so i have a coworker who is a girl that's 6 years younger than me and started 2 months ago. we text all day everyday. there were things I illustrated in my previous thread which lead people to mostly believe I'm in the friendzone. I guess I'll update: we continue to hang out at least once a week. 2 nights ago she had 2 drinks at the bar (just us) and puked when we went back to my car to hang out before parting ways. now 3 days ago, we were texting as usual and the topic of sex came up. I was telling her to do some over the top things to our boss to get that raise she wants (clearly I was being sarcastic .) she went on to say "I hope U don't think I'm that kinda girl cuz I'm not I replied by saying "well I didn't especially cuz I also know your "number" is under 10. and then she went on to say how it's an embarrassingly low number for a girl her age (26). so I kinda told her she was a conflicting person cuz she didn't want me to think of her as a sloot but then told me her number is embarrassingly low. I don't get it. then today, my heart sank a little. apparently another coworkers crush came in and ordered food. the girl who is the basis for this thread said she didn't get to see him but said "he's probably hot , and "I should ask **** if he's single." I just replied yeah U should. But I was hurting inside I kinda wanna tell her "you know that when U find a dude, this friendship we got going on is probably going to the toilet more or less, just so you are aware." or does that sound pathetic? any insight into anything I wrote above?
Author MissingMyHubby Posted January 11, 2016 Author Posted January 11, 2016 and just now I dunno if she was baiting me to compliment her but she was making fun of another coworker of ours who's a bit ugly, but this is what she said: Lol ***** makes me feel better cus there's actually someone else who is less likely to get any ever hahaha and then... She's in the same tent of homely looking chicks as me but she's an entirely different breed and even with makeup she has absolutely zero sex appeal rotfl. It's unfortunate. and then.... Hahaha yep. She takes it to a whole new level but hey she makes me seem like a ten so hey there's a silver lining for some people just not her hahaha I never properly engaged her or validated her thru that but, yea, just nonsense. friendzone?
AndOrchid Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 Wow, she sounds like a catch. (But to answer your question, there's nothing here that would indicate romantic interest in you.)
MidwestUSA Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 Wow, she's a catty beyotch. You're in the friend zone, or orbit. Hopefully you can get even farther away.
VeveCakes Posted January 12, 2016 Posted January 12, 2016 Another thread? Grasping at straws dude. She's not into you. Doubt she cares about your friendship if she gets a hot date. Why do so many ppl want to hook up with co workers?
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