Broke no contact after 3 weeks

[mkaur215]

So i got pretty drunk for the first time two days ago and called my ex who i was in a long distance relationship who had cheated on me for someone closer and left me for. Cursed him and his bew gf out but told him I still miss him. He calls me back the next day and I apologized if i was rude over the phone and to just forget it ever happened. I ended up texting him after and poured my heart out to him. How everyday i think about him and how much i hate/jelous of his new gf and that i missed him a lot. And he sends me a picture of him and her together at work. I asked him honestly does he have any feelings for me and be said as a friend yes. But he sees me as a LITTLE SISTER?! Its ridiculous how do u start seeing someone u loved as a little sister. I told him ok thanks and told

Him i wont be contacting him again. And now i just feel crummy over being rejected ONCE again and him choosing her.

[RySant]

What a way to sister-zoned someone.

 

Anyway, you're the one invested on this one. Not him. Easier said than done but you just have to break all contact. That's the only way to move on. It will take a LOT of time for you to do so but it's like dieting. If you get consistent with the NC, you'll be in shape the soonest!

[Blanco]

You were selfish in the "relationship" and you're still being selfish. You admittedly treated him poorly while you were "together." It sounds like he put you on a pedestal and you exploited that. He finally wised up, moved on, and that hurt your ego.

 

You aren't entitled to his love. It sounds like you had it, took it for granted, and lost it. Now he's moved on and you're still only thinking about yourself with how indignant you are about this. You called him and drunkenly "cursed him and his new" girlfriend and yet you feel wronged? Leave him alone and maybe don't treat the next boyfriend like crap just because he's made himself vulnerable for you.