AT15 Posted January 11, 2016 Posted January 11, 2016 My ex came back around. He texted me for about a month and then we met up on Thursday. We went to a bar and he bought us drinks. We laughed. He apologized. He told me he loved me. He started to kiss my neck. I pulled back and started to talk about my dating life. he said he understands if it's too late for him to be with me. He went for a kiss again. I told him that if we get physical we can't be friends. I still love him, but not in love with him. We ended up getting physical, unfortunately. I went silent afterwards. He then kept contacting me. I finally, told him I was comfortable with him but I was not ready to be in a relationship with him. Then... I check his Instagram. Underneath a photo some girl refers to him as "bea". Of course, I click on this women. Her entire Instagram is basically a timeline of their relationship. My jaw dropped. This is who he broke up with me for...and he is still seeing her?????? What! I text him: " you should have told me you had a "bea" His response..."I told you about her. I'm not with her. told her I wanted a break (exactly what he told me when he broke up with me). Whether he is with her or not, isn't my issue. I'm not with him. And didn't plan on going back with him anytime soon. However... The pictures. Of. Them. Together. Ugggggh. My heart broke. She had pics of him meeting her parents on Thanksgiving. He contacted me the Saturday after thanksgiving. He asked me how I was doing. I didn't respond. Then pics of him holding her hand and hugging her belly. He spent his birthday with her. We had just broken up a month prior. Im happy I saw the pics. It's a reminder to leave him alone. He's no good. Thank you Universe. The Universe had to spell it out for me, but I have finally accepted that this guy is the worst. 1
LetGGOO Posted January 15, 2016 Posted January 15, 2016 Sorry to hear that. I agree, you were probably meant to see this so you could finally move on. You need to erase him from your thoughts about the future because he doesn't seem ready for an honest and mature relationship.
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