egall Posted January 10, 2016 Posted January 10, 2016 Soooo... First of all, sorry for my English, I'm not native speaker... And now let's go to the topic. I'm in my third year of law school studies and the girl who just broke up with me takes all of classes with me for all the time. I always found her cute, alwasy had a great time with her... But just like friends. But then, suddenly last April some of other guys from our class had asked : Why aren't you dating together... "You two look like perfect match". She had imidietlly replied: "I'm not her type" (She's known that I love blondes... I always talked with her about my new dates... All of them were blondes. She is brunette.) But she didn't mention that she had a boyfriend for like 2 years or I dunno. But this question and her answer put a bug into my brain... Afterwards, like a week after this question I invited her to watch some movie in my room. Just two of us... She came. Nothing happend. We just watched the movie. Next week I bought the bottle of Jagermeister, came to her room and drunk the whole bottle with her. And then kissed her. She didn't rejected me. Then I slept with her like three times, went out couple of times... Had a great time with her at all (she always had a boyfriend and kept posting photos with him on Facebook, but I didn't give a ****. I was not in love yet.) In June I left for three months to the USA. We were all the time in touch, she sent me nude pics all the time. (She always had a boyfriend !!!). When I came back I was totally in love. That day when I came back she annouced me that she broke up with him. What a relief ! Everything was perfect for like three months... And then on my birthday (what a bitch) ... out of nothing she was weird. I asked what's going on... And she started with I need a space bull****, it's not your fault etc. Of course, I'm not dumb... I asked her three times if it has something to do with her ex. She said three times NO. I said OK... I was trying to change her mind... Wrote letter, gave her Christmas present (book of poems written by me for her... she always loved it.) But she was still the same. So I left dorm and went home for christmas vacation and went NO CONTACT... And on New Year she's been taged on the picture with her ex... It's been really humiliating. All of my friends wrote me message whats going on... cause we looked like happy couple all the time ( and I think we were happy ). So I deleted her from Facebook and **** it.. Started to date new girl... But I still miss her. And I don't know how it will work when we will have classes together, we have common friends... How to deal with it ? What to do ? Is there any chance to put it together ? Because I think that her relationship with him is not able to work now... Because he knows that we two are classmates... and he lives like 200 miles away. I really don't know what to do. I'm really popular guy at law school, student president and soccer team captain... have a lot of opportunities to find a new girl and I never had problem with that... But I miss her so much. Some advice ?
Wewon Posted January 10, 2016 Posted January 10, 2016 She's disloyal, a bit sneaky and not always upfront. You were a fling. I would suggest that you chalk this up to experience and move on. Continue no contact. 1
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