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Girl asked for my number - but wont text me back


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Met a girl at a bar. Thought the guy she was with was her boyfriend but it was her gay best friend.

 

Long story short we talked for a while, maybe close to 1 hour and 30 minutes, told her i just started salsa dancing so she grabbed my arms and we started dancing, i noticed she got pretty close to me.

 

Later she kept touching my muscles and then kept asking to arm wrestle. She made me arm wrestle other guys which i beat. So basically it seemed she was pretty flirtatious and was impressed with my knowledge of her country. I had a "feeling" she was into me in some way.

 

She had to go and asked for my number, she wasnt carrying her phone on her or something (cant remember too drunk), so she got my phone and entered her full name and phone number. I told her i would text her now, but she said no text her tomorrow morning, i texted her immediatley anyway hahaha. Basically my text was saying who i was and from the bar we met.

 

I stayed in the bar for another 30 minutes and saw her at the strain stop, her gay friend joked about meeting again, but she seemed to ignore me/not look at me.

On the same train back to the city i met my salsa teacher who is an attractive woman and she is a bit flirty. I could tell this girl who asked for my number was looking at us.

 

Then i met the girl and her gay friend again at the main city train station, they guy talked to me and the girl went to the bathroom, again seemed like she would not look at me.

 

Thinking maybe she thought i was dating my salsa teacher i texted her again saying something along the lines that it was a crazy night that i saw her 2 other times outside the bar and also i saw my salsa teacher on the train.

 

That was Friday night and its Sunday afternoon and i have not got a text back from her.

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I forgot to say that before i met her at the bar, on the meet up group chat she replied and liked one of my comments.

 

Interestingly i joined to do a salsa class thing on meet up and i can see she later signed up to this event as well, but with a different meet up profile - as in she has two meet up profiles. Same name but different photos.

 

Does this sound a bit odd?

 

Anyway i wont text her again, but if i see her at salsa dancing im thinking just saying hi and not bring up the text?

 

So strange

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