immizunderstood Posted June 4, 2005 Posted June 4, 2005 He just doesn't care . He says I'm immature because I like clothing, shoes and my MTV. This man is 12 years older than me, we work together, live together and play together. But lately all he does is critize me and make me feel dumb. I haven't even had sex in 3 MONTHS! I mean come on if a guy doesn't want to admit what should I do. I'm feeling I should leave but if I do his office will be short handed. Any suggestions?
westernxer Posted June 4, 2005 Posted June 4, 2005 You're going to sacrifice your sanity and personal dignity for a loser you happen to work for? I can't feel sorry for people who choose to live like this... you do it because you hope he'll change. Maybe you're better off suffering...
Author immizunderstood Posted June 4, 2005 Author Posted June 4, 2005 You make good sense. I want it to change and I know in my heart it won't. I'm glad you don't feel sorry for me because it makes me feel even more sure that I should just get up and leave. God I wish I could go right now.
Author immizunderstood Posted June 4, 2005 Author Posted June 4, 2005 I've been going on job interviews and sending resume. Hopefully I'll find something soon because my love has been turning into disgust especially when he uses the silent treatment. Please keep in mind there is also children involved. But trust me I am strong, just a hopeless romantic. JUST NOT WITH THE RIGHT GUU.
westernxer Posted June 4, 2005 Posted June 4, 2005 Children involved? Now that's a different story... hang in there and be strong for them.
Author immizunderstood Posted June 4, 2005 Author Posted June 4, 2005 Thanks, I knew there was soft spot somewhere in there.
westernxer Posted June 4, 2005 Posted June 4, 2005 But you still gotta deal with him... I don't know how you can work and live with someone. Suicide, if you ask me.
Author immizunderstood Posted June 4, 2005 Author Posted June 4, 2005 My main objective is to ignore because if I don't I will go mad.
Author immizunderstood Posted June 4, 2005 Author Posted June 4, 2005 But according to him I have the issues...
Author immizunderstood Posted June 4, 2005 Author Posted June 4, 2005 U R Stupid and NO don't tell your serious
westernxer Posted June 4, 2005 Posted June 4, 2005 There you go... now I see why you're in this predicament.
westernxer Posted June 4, 2005 Posted June 4, 2005 You certainly deserve whatever you get, nothing more, nothing less. Am I really the stupid one for telling something you don't want to hear?
Author immizunderstood Posted June 4, 2005 Author Posted June 4, 2005 Come on it wasn't even like that. and Like i said before YOU ARE RIGHT. PLEASE DON'T THINK I WAS CALLING YOU STUPID BECAUSE I WASN'T THAT'S WHY I PUT THE WINK AT THE END. I'M TRULY SORRY IF I OFFENDED YOU.
westernxer Posted June 4, 2005 Posted June 4, 2005 No problem... It's just a contextual misunderstanding -- something that happens in most relationships.
westernxer Posted June 4, 2005 Posted June 4, 2005 Sometimes we're all "mizunderstood." Seriously, though, it would be good if both of you saw a counselor together, at least so that you can discuss things in the open. If he doesn't go for it, you might have to reconsider your options. It's good that you're looking for another job, though. Too much time together can be a bad thing.
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