Would you call this a rejection?

[Ojwasguilty]

Class ended at 11am and we were just chilling. It was me, her and 3 of her friends.

 

I heard her say "Oh God I'm so tired" and I said "Do you want to grab a coffee?". She looked a bit taken aback and asked her friends if they were coming too.

 

I didn't really intend it to be a date or anything... I was just hoping to be able to speak to her.

 

We did and wherever I was standing she always seemed to be next to me.

 

I also playfully hit her shoulder as we were waiting and she laughed and did it back to me saying "You better watch out, you might break your hand".

 

Did she reject me?

[smackie9]

Who knows, we certainly don't know...maybe she was taken aback because she didn't think you were interested in her.

[Lois_Griffin]

Yes, you were rejected.

 

 

If you ask her for coffee and she wants the whole group to go along with you, she doesn't see you as a romantic option. And just because you playfully punched her in the arm and she did it back means absolutely nothing. That's what buddies do.