Jc396 Posted January 8, 2016 Posted January 8, 2016 My ex of five years broke up with me back in August. I am about 4 months into NC. The moving on process has came in waves some days I don't think about others I feel hurt. I wouldn't take him back but I do miss him and I'm still hurt by him leaving. He cheated on me 3 years ago which devestated me. I ended up taking him back and was willing to give the relationship another try. That set the pace for a downward spiral and he ended up leaving me cause he was unhappy. He completely cut me out of his life like I never exixisted even though I gave my all to the relationship. Out of curiosity, I came across his Instagram today and realized he is now following the same girl he cheated on me with 3 years ago. I'm blocked from all his social media so a friend of mine showed it to me. I know it was wrong to look at his page but it's already been done. I'm hurt because after all the pain I went through to get over the cheating, it feels like a slap in the face for her to be able to be his friend but not me when I didn't do anything wrong. I never betrayed him like he did me. He left simply cause he was unhappy even tho I tried my best to make him happy. How do I move past this anger without it undoing all the progress I made. I feel so angry and resentful.
oldshirt Posted January 8, 2016 Posted January 8, 2016 How do I move past this anger without it undoing all the progress I made. By living a good, rich and full life for yourself.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 8, 2016 Posted January 8, 2016 You can move forward with the knowledge that he is not the person you thought he was, and that next time, you will be strong enough to kick a cheater to the curb. Don't even try to be friends with someone who is so disrespectful to you. And tell your friends to keep these updates to themselves, for heaven's sake.
PegNosePete Posted January 8, 2016 Posted January 8, 2016 I'm blocked from all his social media so a friend of mine showed it to me. Tell this "friend" that you have no interest in your ex and please don't talk to you about him ever again because it is upsetting and distressful. Now you need to restart your NC from day 1.
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