So I am seeing this girl

[Kartoffel20]

I am seeing this girl, who I am very much into.

We met at a bar a few months back, and the chemistry started right away. We started messaging a lot to each other, and she would send me kind messages etc, and it turned out we shared a lot of interests. I moved to my current country 1,5 years ago, and I have been busy with my education so dating wasn't really a thing, I would mostly just go get some one night stands. Anyway, after a months of just texting, we decided to meet up, play some video games for a weekend, which we did. We met up again a week later and everything has been fine, but then she went on a vacation for 5 weeks, and I went home to my family to celebrate the holidays during this period. The first 3 weeks of being away was great, we would basically tell each other what we did and share pictures, but then it started being less of all that, as if she started losing her feelings. Anyway, we planned to go watch a movie when we got home and I was thinking that when we would meet up again, everything would start to be fine. So I picked her up early, we went to my place, talked, cuddled, had sex as we use to. She told me she missed me while she was away, and she seemed very happy.

I drove her home after the cinema, and kissed her goodbye(All this happened yesterday.)

Today we were messaging a bit, but it feels like she is pushing me away, won't answer my messages that fast, and her responses are pretty cold compared to what she usually would.

Anyway, am I overthinking this whole thing? I haven't had any kind of feelings for a girl for 2 years, and then I bump into this one fine girl.

What do you guys suggest? Should I give it time, let her try to contact me more and make myself a bit hard to get, or just throw in everything and tell her how I really feel?

[d0nnivain]

You can't tell anything about the status of an interpersonal relationship based on text messages & even less from the frequency or timing of the replies.

 

 

If she came to your house & had sex with you, I don't see a problem. Stop trying to connect through a device & spend time with each other. That is the only thing that matters.