Feel like I'm turning into a sex fiend

[Romeofud]

Yea bros its getting pretty serious now for sure. The last 12 chicks I tapped, I gave all of them hickeys like u people wont believe & its like I cant control it. One Latin chick I marked her chest & thighs up bigtime before hitting her hard for almost 15 minutes. All the girls had marks on their necks quick after some kissing & touching. I feel almost compelled to do this every ****ing time & I'm not trying to see them again so it ain't territorial. Don't know what it is.

 

I did it again last night after taking a chick out to eat & its the first ****ing date which ended with me sucking on her neck like a madman & she begged me to not hurt her & I ignored it & banged her anyway, biting & nibbling on her shoulders the whole ****ing time. She called me an animal afterwards & I need help she claimed. I tested the waters by texting her just now to see if she down for another meetup and she says yes & that she'll be free Friday. So, do I need help or should I just tone things down a bit because chicks don't seem to be that pissed about it. Maybe I'm worried over nothing?

[lollipopspot]

If someone tells you to stop, then you need to respect that.

 

If someone tells you not to hurt them, then make sure to check in with them or get cues that they're o.k.

 

If you are going to be rough, then you need to make sure you're with someone who appreciates that. Don't just forge ahead because you think it has been o.k. in the past. You have to build up a relationship and understanding with someone, and/or be clear during the act that it's o.k., if you're going to do things that are likely to be painful.