danniel1 Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 *have know a woman in my office for a year now and we have always had a real connection common ground can't really explain it but felt it.She only had a week to go before she left for a new job when we attend the business Christmas party.We talked she flirted held and touched my shoulder stood closely together. A group of moved onto another venue and she took my arm which did raise a few eyebrows with her female peers.We talked in the club and so close we almost kissed but I pulled away. I held her waist without issue and we dis ussec our "connection" that she also felt. at the end of the night I told her I would not be in the office for her last week...I suggested should we stay in touch and she took my phone and put my her number in it.I text her early next day and said I hoped she was OK apologised if I got too close but re iterated that we had a connection and would like to stay in touch and that if she needed me I would be there for her.She text back that day to say how's your head LOL.. definately want to stay in touch hope you are Ok and thanks x I replied have a great Christmas and hope the new job goes OK and she came back thanking me wishing me a good holiday xx I am really confused I want to stay in touch as the connection I felt / we felt was electric thing is she is 32 and I am 50 have I totally missed read this my instinct says no but I can't believe she is attracted to me...she has a boyfriend too.she text last I want to text her again but not sure she can possibly want me to..oh and i found several pictures on my phone of her blowing kisses to me she must have secretly taken....what's your opinion on this any feedback would be appreciated...confused... * *
d0nnivain Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 I can't believe I have to tell this to a 50 year old man, but stop texting her. Pick the phone up & call her. Ask what's going on with her BF. If he's out of the picture, ask her on a date. The worst she can do is say no. If the BF is still around, back off. You don't need to be the OM.
Author danniel1 Posted January 7, 2016 Author Posted January 7, 2016 I get the phone bit I don't text ordinarily always speak that's my generation modus operandum. ..the point is the age difference that's what I don't quite get...
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