eightninevision Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 Background: Ex gf dumped me 3 months ago due to her move to new state next month (February). She didn't want to invest more emotions. Very tough breakup, I went Uber beta and totally lost frame. She went cold and distant and never initiated contact but always responded. No contact for almost two months now after I made things more amicable and we both had a couple of laughs about things. When I was chasing I booty called her 3 times. Just straight up said "come over and get railed tonight." she's into that kind of talk. She always said "haha thanks not tonight though." on the third time I called her out for not denying it permanently saying she liked me chasing her. She didn't respond. Flash forward to now, two months later. Haven't heard a peep from her.I've gotten jacked though, and I'm kinda tempted to snapchat her a nudey (she used to like that too) and say come hop on this before you leave. I feel like there's nothing to lose. Obviously frame and dignity, but she's moving half way across the country. Still a bad idea? Would establishing more light heated rapport before doing that improve my odds since she may be afraid on trying to reconcile? Eg she always told me to eat Lara bars, so I could joke around over text that I tried and they're life changing.
Nickr3023 Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 Background: Ex gf dumped me 3 months ago due to her move to new state next month (February). She didn't want to invest more emotions. Very tough breakup, I went Uber beta and totally lost frame. She went cold and distant and never initiated contact but always responded. No contact for almost two months now after I made things more amicable and we both had a couple of laughs about things. When I was chasing I booty called her 3 times. Just straight up said "come over and get railed tonight." she's into that kind of talk. She always said "haha thanks not tonight though." on the third time I called her out for not denying it permanently saying she liked me chasing her. She didn't respond. Flash forward to now, two months later. Haven't heard a peep from her.I've gotten jacked though, and I'm kinda tempted to snapchat her a nudey (she used to like that too) and say come hop on this before you leave. I feel like there's nothing to lose. Obviously frame and dignity, but she's moving half way across the country. Still a bad idea? Would establishing more light heated rapport before doing that improve my odds since she may be afraid on trying to reconcile? Eg she always told me to eat Lara bars, so I could joke around over text that I tried and they're life changing. If this is/was a very tough break up in your words......then yeah there's A LOT to lose, not including your dignity. This will set you so far back you really have no idea. Sometimes its hard to think with the right head as a guy, but trust me, hooking up with her is going to mess with your head more than you can even imagine. If you're the type of person that can have sex without emotion, then you may be able to do it, but because you said this was a tough breakup you're setting yourself up for even more heartbreak if you do this.
kidm Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 LOL you've propositioned her a few times and got denied. It's over, dude. She is not afraid of trying to reconcile. She has not initiated contact since cutting things off with you. Sounds to me she has moved on and you should do the same. Find a new woman to share that new jacked body with lol.
Blanco Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 Enough with this "whatever, I don't really care anyway" attitude. This girl shattered your already fragile ego and its eating you alive
Author eightninevision Posted January 7, 2016 Author Posted January 7, 2016 Enough with this "whatever, I don't really care anyway" attitude. This girl shattered your already fragile ego and its eating you alive Elaborate!
Blanco Posted January 8, 2016 Posted January 8, 2016 The basis for your relationship seemed tied up mostly in her appearance and the ego boost you got from snagging a hot girl. What seemed to bother you most after the breakup was not necessarily the loss of the girl, but the blow to your ego that the loss of the girl caused. This latest ploy seems like yet another attempt to garner validation from her and boost your ego. Basically, your emotional investment in this girl from what you've described seems to mostly concern your ego. 1
CherryVanilla Posted January 8, 2016 Posted January 8, 2016 Background: Ex gf dumped me 3 months ago due to her move to new state next month (February). She didn't want to invest more emotions. Very tough breakup, I went Uber beta and totally lost frame. She went cold and distant and never initiated contact but always responded. No contact for almost two months now after I made things more amicable and we both had a couple of laughs about things. When I was chasing I booty called her 3 times. Just straight up said "come over and get railed tonight." she's into that kind of talk. She always said "haha thanks not tonight though." on the third time I called her out for not denying it permanently saying she liked me chasing her. She didn't respond. Flash forward to now, two months later. Haven't heard a peep from her.I've gotten jacked though, and I'm kinda tempted to snapchat her a nudey (she used to like that too) and say come hop on this before you leave. I feel like there's nothing to lose. Obviously frame and dignity, but she's moving half way across the country. Still a bad idea? Would establishing more light heated rapport before doing that improve my odds since she may be afraid on trying to reconcile? Eg she always told me to eat Lara bars, so I could joke around over text that I tried and they're life changing. "Went beta" , "lost frame"... Are you a pickup artist? Lol. Anyway... I totally understand your girlfriend. If she decided to break up with you, she is trying to move on and having sex with you is the worst thing she could do. She doesn't need to get more hurt than she already is and you should respect that. Stop acting like a horndog. You're being selfish. Honestly she is being patient because if I were her I would have blocked you already. Let her move on. And you should move on as well.
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