em88 Posted June 4, 2005 Posted June 4, 2005 i need closure frm my bf so that i can get over him. but then i would be breaking NC. how do i go around this? (and i wont lie that i am secretly wishing if we talk again, we can get back together)
beesknees Posted June 4, 2005 Posted June 4, 2005 NC is to help YOU heal. if you break it, be prepared that you still won't get the answers you want. you're gambling with your heart. if you're that important to him, let him contact YOU, and then you can get the closure you need from there. otherwise, just look out for yourself.
Author em88 Posted June 4, 2005 Author Posted June 4, 2005 the thing is, i know he wont call. i know him enough to know that he definatly will not. the only way i can get answers for him is for me to call him. when we broke up, it was kind of a mess and i need to just straighten things out. weve been in situations before where things have been like this and one of us made the first move to fix things. the thing is, this time it seems for real. but i need to know how he feels, because he just shut off and refused to give me answers.
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