hazbeard Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 I'm not sure if this is in the right forum or not, but am going to post it anyway. I'm about 6 months past a (surprisingly pleasant) breakup of a 10 year relationship. Starting to hit the dating circuit again. Thing is, as a low/mid 30 something year old guy, I've never actually done the dating thing. All my past relationships started without the need to "date" as such, they just kind of happened. Anyway... while I'm studying, I'm delivering pizzas to make rent. As is part of the job, we meet ALOT of great women, both single and not, and flirting happens lots. So... I was out on a delivery the other night to a random who had never ordered from us before. She was SUPER FRIENDLY, very chatty, and just seemed like a real fun girl. If I wasn't on shift, I'd probably have stuck around longer and talked more, maybe tried to stay in contact, but having not been in the job too long (and having a boss who is quite unpredictable), I chose not to be too flirty, or any of that stuff. Anyway, been thinking about this girl for a few days now. If I had the chance, would definitely like to get to know her a bit better. How would the lovely people of this forum choose to handle this?
TaraMaiden2 Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 Drop off a note: "Hey, remember me? I delivered your pizza the other evening! This is my phone number. Give me a call if you'd like a drink some time. Or let me know if it's thanks so much but no thanks - don't want to tread on the wrong toes, so a heads-up would be good!" sign it, and put it through her mailbox. Then? Wait. If after a week, you hear nothing, you're a friendly pizza delivery guy. And that's ok. 1
Author hazbeard Posted January 7, 2016 Author Posted January 7, 2016 I did think of this, but wasn't too sure if this would come across as being a bit too creepy. May give it a shot.
GemmaUK Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 See, I wouldn't usually advocate anything like this simply because you were working... Having said that, I have met a few nice delivery guys and if I were chatty, friendly and flirty to them then yep. I wouldn't mind a note. Something to add to that note would be something like. PS. This is my part time job as I'm a student. Also, I do know your address but you can be safe in the knowledge that should you not contact me I will not venture to your doorstep again. I would maybe write something like that than asking her to let you know if she is not interested. If you don't hear anything within a week you can assume she isn't into you anyway in my opinion. My only concern if I were she and I wasn't interested is that you might come back - which would then be creepy - if you get me? I do think you should write that note though.
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