darser Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 So... My ex gf gonna get married after 1 year of bu, she's 18 and im 20. Right now I'm still in the phase of wtf is going on, and I just think of the facts that: A)she isn't studying college nor working B) she had to move to a cheaper place C)her age, why does she wanna marry so young? Yea, yea, I know, not my life and I should be over her, but it's bugging me this and I wanted some advice Right now: I've been studying University for almost 3 years, own a good place to call home, a supportive family and alot of good friends... So why it still just pisses me off...
Heather4 Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 Sounds like you still love her. I feel the same way about my ex. Im praying he doesnt get married or pop out a kid before I do. Petty I know but it would hurt so bad. If i haf a boyfriend..i could at least be distracted.
Marco Valerio Posted January 8, 2016 Posted January 8, 2016 The odds of that marriage surviving more than a couple of years are 1 to 9. She's far too young to make that kind of monogamous life style.
smudge21 Posted January 8, 2016 Posted January 8, 2016 I remember seeing a pic of my ex with a ring on that finger... killed me right at that moment, but looking back now, it was just another kick in the behind to remind me that I had to move on. Whatever her reasons have zero to do with you and that's the way it should be. It will take time to move on and hearing about an ex always makes us feel regretful that they should be with us, that maybe things would be better if we were together. It's all nonsense and it's simply your feelings trying to hold on to the past. I recall hearing about my ex doing all sorts of crazy stuff and the more crazy it got, the more I realised I was better off out of it. You sound like you have your life together, so just focus on that and enjoy your twenties, they only come once! 2
K2z Posted January 11, 2016 Posted January 11, 2016 Read my thread. Take some comfort in the fact that you are incredibly young. You could spend the next five years on the wildest dream adventure your imagination can concoct and still have your entire life ahead of you to reinvent. For now, understand that I feel what you feel. To see your ex marry another person is excruciating- age doesn't matter on that. But you have so much rocket fuel left to propel your life. You should use it.
Limitless159 Posted January 11, 2016 Posted January 11, 2016 You still have age on your side and have lots of time. You will laugh about this one day. My ex and I broke up with me 8 months ago. She's had new boyfriend for 5 or 6 months. Over christmas holidays I find out she's pregnant with her new boyfriend. We were together for 7 years. She's 26 and I am 30. It was pretty hard news too take considering I wanted too have kids with her by this point. Not too pump my own tires but her new boyfriend doesn't even come close too me. I gave her everything she wanted and we had a great life. He's on the verge of losing the only dead end job he knows how to do thanks too sinking oil prices. Its tough too watch but Ive decided that its just not my problem anymore. For you at your age I think in a year or two you won't even remember this and will have moved on with your life while your ex will probably be going through her first divorce. Best of luck too you.
Author darser Posted January 28, 2016 Author Posted January 28, 2016 Thank you all for your answers, it makes me happy that other people can show me that the world not at end like i though before:laugh: Makes me sad (and quite happy actually) that the statics are against her and even in a part of me i know i still have some...hopes? for the future to see her as a another me, but life has alot of twists and who knows, life is gonna be fun!
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