Jakegulinding Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 Girlfriend of 6 years and mother of my two young children broke up with me a week before I was going to propose. We have never been in an other relationship before and no previous partners. I'm so devastated and I don't know what to do now I can't move on. I told her the other day I was going to propose but she broke my heart because she dumped me. She said she doesn't want a relationship at the moment. I have the ring beside my bed and anytime I look at it I'm depressed. I think I'm just going to give her the ring and tell her she can sell it or do whatever she wants with it but I don't want it because I have to try move on. The thought of her meeting someone new kills me. I've always loved her and gave her everything. What should I do ? The thing that bothers me aswell is that we have no previous partners and our sex life hasn't been great. I just hope she didn't dump me because of that.
Father'sGentleFlower Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 Well off she's the mother of your kids that's makes things a bit harder, but I think once you put yourself in a better state just ask her what happened. That'd be the first step. Also I would hide the ring at least for the meanwhile. 1
lolablue17 Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 It's very odd to dump the father of your children just like that, with no reason, or first trying to fix problems. Talk to her. She is not a teen ager who can make irresponsible impulsive decisions. Every decision has a huge effect about other people. Try to talk to her, and ask her to think again if there is anything can be fixed before ruining the family for ever. 3
d0nnivain Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 . She said she doesn't want a relationship at the moment. I don't usually jump to this conclusion, but that sentence alone makes me wonder if their is another man. It's a classic line when the dumper has fallen for somebody else. You are not going to get her back. Sell the ring. Use the money to hire a good lawyer to work out child support, custody & visitation. 7
Nickr3023 Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 I don't usually jump to this conclusion, but that sentence alone makes me wonder if their is another man. It's a classic line when the dumper has fallen for somebody else. You are not going to get her back. Sell the ring. Use the money to hire a good lawyer to work out child support, custody & visitation. Yeah I'd have to agree, every single time someone says I don't want a relationship at the moment, it usually just means, I don't want a relationship with you, I want it with someone else. It's a harsh reality, but it's correct. Sell the ring, use that money for the lawyer, and start moving on. This woman did you wrong without any type of closure or even a good reason. 3
Chi townD Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 I don't know what caused her to go off the reservation like that but you have to be controlling the ONLY thing you have the power to control and that's YOU! You need to be focusing on you and those kids! I agree with Donnivan as well. Sell the ring and talk with a lawyer. DO NOT give it to her. What's she going to do with it anyways? She'll just probably end up selling it and use the money herself! 1
Author Jakegulinding Posted January 8, 2016 Author Posted January 8, 2016 Thank you everybody for your replies. I'm so heartbroken over all of this. I gave her everything and treated her like a princess. The only thing that was bad was the sex and that was all me. And for her to be with someone else kills me. Also I have to see her face every week because of the kids and I don't know how to deal with that
lil hoodlum Posted January 8, 2016 Posted January 8, 2016 Thank you everybody for your replies. I'm so heartbroken over all of this. I gave her everything and treated her like a princess. The only thing that was bad was the sex and that was all me. And for her to be with someone else kills me. Also I have to see her face every week because of the kids and I don't know how to deal with that Just a suggestion, Have someone else that you can trust, drop off and pick up the kiddos.
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