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Basically, me and my girl join a couple group that involves 2 of my friends with their girls too. So total 3 couples.

 

So one day, my girl hit me up by telling me she saw both of my friend's snap with they girls going for an outing but without us. At the same day me and my girl had school. But there were not whatsapp updates on the couple group. So we were worried that maybe they didnt want to include us anymore.

 

So i personally whatsapp my friend's girl and ask her why arent we included? Plus why must she create a whatsapp group that excludes us. She basically said its because they didnt want to offend me and my girl because we couldnt join. By the photos that they are going to share among themselves excluding us. and tell us not to worry because there is nothing against us. Moreover we do not have any transportation.

 

We got insecure because firstly. Why must she create a group? It would be much better if you guys shared the picture even though we couldnt follow. At least we know you guys had fun! We got insecure of course. But my friend's girl seems annoyed by us being insecure. This happens on few occasions. I dont understand why is there a need for a new grouo that exclude me snd my girl?

 

Is it wrong to feel insecure? Are they pretending to like us? Hope to get all your advices!

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Oh, sounds like they're a little cliquish. People stop being so much that was when they get a little more mature. Right now, they probably have a lot of self-focus and self-centeredness going on and think it's all about them. Who knows why. Maybe you got some of "their" attention. Who knows? But don't feel insecure about it. It's probably their own little petty issues. I can't tell if they're trying to totally drop you or not, but if they aren't, no big deal if they are thick as fleas. If they are, then it just wasn't the right mix I guess. Good luck. Living well is the best revenge. Just go out and have fun and act like you don't care. that will make THEM feel insecure.

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