blueowl32 Posted January 6, 2016 Posted January 6, 2016 After a painful break up, I discovered that almost for the whole of my relationship with my ex boyfriend, he's been stringing his ex along. My ex was with her before he moved to my country and eventually sort of broke up with her due to long distance. After a year or so, I met him. I knew she was messaging him when he was with me, but he told me it was because she was not over him, and that he ignored her most of the time. I trusted him. I FOUND OUT: he was stringing her along. He would call her like twice a month to say he loved her. He told her that he DIDNT LOVE ME, and our relationship WAS NOT SERIOUS. Told her that once he returned to his country, he would GET BACK TOGETHER WITH HER. Yet at the same time he would become mean to her and criticised her weight and personality. So he's been still contacting her until she found out that he lied to her (about me not being serious). He's been really private about publicising our relationship (now I know why, because he wanted to hit on girls behind me) but made a comment saying 'I love you' to me one time, which his ex saw and decided she was fed up with him. I could feel he did truly love me a lot when we were together. Now I feel so used and betrayed. Why did he do that? He had low moral standards? Did he love me? IS IT BECAUSE HE WAS STILL IN LOVE WITH HIS EX? When we broke up, I was having a hard time letting him go. He lied to me again saying 'all my exes have such difficulty getting over me', 'my previous ex didnt manage to get over me despite having several rebounds' and 'she still wants to sleep with me' (which is truly not true as the girl moved on months ago). IS he doing this because it gives him an ego boost? WHY?
Author blueowl32 Posted January 6, 2016 Author Posted January 6, 2016 Sorry I was trying to edit the title but ended up duplicating the post!
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