11012015 Posted January 6, 2016 Posted January 6, 2016 Just curious. How long can you do LDR without seeing each other in person?
le_20 Posted January 6, 2016 Posted January 6, 2016 3-4 months to me,but i still prefer we can at least meet once every 2 months
d0nnivain Posted January 6, 2016 Posted January 6, 2016 It's a relationship if you have never met. It's a fantasy I could not do this at all. It has always seemed ridiculous to me. That said, I was dating a guy locally when he moved from the NY metro area to California. We maintained an LDR for 2.5 years. We did this before cell phones, the internet & social media. We survived on 3-4 visits per year; snail mail letters & a 1 hour phone call once per week after the rates went down. The distance is not what broke us apart.
Author 11012015 Posted January 6, 2016 Author Posted January 6, 2016 I had no idea there was a contest... I meant, let's say you started talking to someone online (and it is a LDR) at what point you say "Look, if we are not meeting up ... I am moving on."
Silver_star Posted January 8, 2016 Posted January 8, 2016 You should meet up as soon as possible. I waited 3 months before meeting my Long distance crush. Due to finances and work. But I never had a relationship before we met...we just had a crush.
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