is she telling me the truth

[Mr. Lucky]

the issues I had with the doctors apts was that going in all were thought to be serious and she did not want me to go. The bigger issue was that these apts. that should have taken 30 min to 2 hours were 3 to 5 hours long so she says. the missing of time frames and the inability for me to get a hold of her while she was out was insane.

 

Even if she's not cheating, I wouldn't want to be with a partner that works so hard to shut you out of her life. Forget love, many of the things you've written makes it seem as though she doesn't even like you.

 

Why continue ???

 

Mr. Lucky

[ajcraw]

What's that about the nurses thinking that you were her son? I don't really understand your point? Do you think that has anything to do with all of it?

 

yes I do. the surgical and office nurses were the same, they had never seen me, maybe never heard of me and she had never introduced me. everyone knew everyone I was the outsider. She was constantly telling me that I did not have to stay, her actions were not that of a wife with her husband, and they assumed based on her actions I was the son. They were embarrassed when I set them straight and she was not thrilled that I introduced myself as the husband. Her gyno did the surgery and the first time I met her was 10 min before she cut into my wife and it was awkward. Two days before the surgery my wife told me that I needed to go because the surgeon would not do it if she did not meet me. I told that was good because I was going anyway. She then told me that she did not want me to stay and I said I was staying anyway. Every other doctor we have and their staff knows both of us very well.

[turnera]

So have you moved out yet? Filed? Anything?