Deonce Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 Basically, I was in a LDR with a girl for 14 months. We had argued a lot the past weeks, nothing big but I guess she was sick of it. A few days after our fight she blocked me on facebook and pretty much everywhere. She didn't even let me know that we're over. I called her and she said she thought I'd understand that we're over since she blocked me everywhere. I'm just wondering if this is normal? That she couldn't even say good bye. In my opinion it's really disrespectful.
Lobouspo Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 You are absolutely right, she at least should have had a clear and concise discussion with you ending things. My situation was very similar, an LDR with a lot of arguing until the eventual breakup, minus the sudden ghosting part. It sounds like you got your explanation as to why she didn't give an explanation if that makes sense. That should be your closure right there. OP, IME in 41 years of life, a lot of arguing is a symptom of terminal illness in a dying relationship. Not always, but often. Sometimes you come to a fork in the road where there is really not much to be said. Accept the reality, and understand the transitory nature of how people come and go from our lives, romantic and otherwise. For your own health, I'll echo the common theme on this forum, go complete NC, grieve, and work on yourself. Years from now this will be but a blip on the radar. LDR's are tough in the best of circumstances. An LDR with arguing and disrespect. No thanks, BTDT.
Been Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 I agree but a lot of people don't want to be bothered by a break up and they just stop/block all contact hoping that he/she will get the message. In my opinion that's a coward.
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