Fairy dust two Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 I was with my ex boyfriend for three months we had no issues we were happy very happy then about three weeks ago he left me no reason at all there was no warning signs at all we were still having sex I was pregnant and he was very happy about it kissed my belly everynight told it he loved every night we were so happy then like I said he left just came and got his stuff and said he was leaving then I found out that he is already in a new relationship is this just a rebound thing I'm so confused I had a miscarriage a week after he left due to the stress of him leaving and he didn't even care bout it
PegNosePete Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 Sorry to hear of your loss and your distress. What a terrible situation to be in. Unfortunately it is highly unlikely that this is a rebound. Much more likely is that he was cheating with this other person before he broke up with you. In fact I would bet my bottom dollar on it. The best thing you can do now is no never speak, email, text, facebook or otherwise have any contact with him whatsoever. He has shown that he is a complete douchebag and you don't need that kind of person in your life. You need to concentrate on the important people in your life: family, real friends, etc. Do not have anything more to do with this a**hole. 1
Author Fairy dust two Posted January 5, 2016 Author Posted January 5, 2016 Thanks I just really loved him felt like we had a great connection and I just want to be with him it's really hard I'm still struggling to cope with it all
everything Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 Reading this its really sad and I'm sorry for your loss. Try and make yourself happy again. Laugh and go out a lot. It really seems like he was never seriuos about you. I mean he just got up and left when yoi really needed him to be there. You know you seserve better.
Author Fairy dust two Posted January 5, 2016 Author Posted January 5, 2016 I just don't get it he went to work he came home the same time every night after work he talked about our future what he wanted the night before he left he was talking bout getting engaged and married he told me he loved me the night before as well then the day it happened he went to pick up his daughter as usual have me a kiss said he loved me and has never been happier then he came home and said he was leaving
Author Fairy dust two Posted January 5, 2016 Author Posted January 5, 2016 Also someone messaged me telling me his new girl new nothing about me or the baby but when I tried to see who was telling me this it was like the page had been deleted why would someone message me that
PegNosePete Posted January 6, 2016 Posted January 6, 2016 Also someone messaged me telling me his new girl new nothing about me or the baby but when I tried to see who was telling me this it was like the page had been deleted why would someone message me that I'd bet that it's him, trying to make you not hate her (for some weird reason). Anyway, who cares, it's a waste of your brain power trying to figure these things out. Just delete him from your life and your thoughts entirely.
Author Fairy dust two Posted January 6, 2016 Author Posted January 6, 2016 After posting this and reading ur replies even though I love him dearly I'm feeling stronger today I haven't thought bout it or got upset about it I think hearing other peoples opinions that doesn't no either of us helps so thank you I'm defiantly feeling more positive about life hopefully I can continue to head forward and not dwell on the past xx
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