sanne Posted June 3, 2005 Posted June 3, 2005 My ex, for lack of a better word, was a complete nightmare. Our relationship was pretty much a disaster towards the end, and I learned how coldhearted and cruel she really was. Yet, despite all of this I could not understand why I still had feelings for her and why a part of me still wanted her back. I have kept away from her, thanks to the advice of many, but it still bugged me that I thought about her in that way. Well a week ago I was watching that movie "Along Came Polly", and there was this one scene that has totally changed my outlook on things. Ben Stiller's character says something to the effect of: "You cheated on me on our honeymoon. What kind of a coldhearted bitch does that? I'd be a fscking idiot to ever get back together with you". I feel like now I am completely moved on. When I think about her, i don't have longing feelings for her, in fact I don't have any feelings at all for her. Those loving feelings are completely gone, and I can finally say my heart has moved on. Now, how did I get to this point? Strict NC. It's the only way, trust me. It took me about a week and a half to finally gain the perspective I need.
ConfusedInOC Posted June 3, 2005 Posted June 3, 2005 Glad you are healing! Live, learn, move on You'll find someone better for you, that's for sure.
NTB Posted June 3, 2005 Posted June 3, 2005 glad something made you realize that she wasn't worth it........that movie was cool "LET IT RAIN" or the other line that cracked me up "DUDE I SHARETED"
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