Andrew91 Posted January 4, 2016 Posted January 4, 2016 Hi guys, I dated this girl for several months and now I might have lost her (we didn’t have a fight or anything like that, but she now says she’s in a time of her life when she might prefer to stay alone, instead of having someone). The problem is this: everything with her was intense, every single day, every single moment. I discovered the joy of sharing my life with someone else. I’m 24 years old and I’ve never been with someone before her, so before all of this I was used to only have to think about myself in terms of life’s goals and personal plans. With her, I discovered the beauty of doing things in two. In a certain way, I realised the fact that everything has a meaning only if you can share it with someone else. Now that I (probably) lost all of this, I feel somehow disoriented. The idea of getting back to where I was it’s kind of discouraging. And what makes it harder is the fact that everything is great between us and we never had real fights or anything like that. Everything is perfect, but… I don’t know, she doesn’t know if she wants to keep going or steps back (she was recently in a relationship that went bad, so she’s not completely recovered from that). I’m on vacation during those days (I live abroad and I came back to celebrate the holidays with my family), so I’m trying to not think about it too much and to just enjoy the family, but I’m afraid that as soon as I’ll get back it’s going to be so hard. What should I do? Thanks!
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