rdons1 Posted January 4, 2016 Share Posted January 4, 2016 (edited) So about a week ago I broke up with my GF of the past 6 months. We have hung out twice since just to talk and hangout before she goes back to college. When I am not with her I generally don't feel like I love her anymore. But when I am with her I just get this overwhelming urge to want to hold her and kiss her and I feel like I have feelings again. I dont understand why I only feel this way when I am with her. I know it is not fair to her so that's generally why I broke it off with her. I cant tell if these are actual feelings I have for her or if I just get that way when I'm with her because I'm being needy. And now that shes not mine anymore i get so much more excited about talking to her and find her so much more attractive I was thinking maybe this is just how relationships are after the honeymoon phase? All of my relationships have ended just as the honeymoon phase was ending so I've never really gotten to this point in a relationship .I have no reason to not love her anymore, she just bothers the hell out of me at times and I genuinely feel like I don't love her anymore, but then other times I do. I really would love to be with her and wish I could just be head over heels for her. Im hoping that in time after a period of time apart we can re connect somehow and I feel the way I would like to about her. Edited January 4, 2016 by rdons1 Link to post Share on other sites
Nickr3023 Posted January 4, 2016 Share Posted January 4, 2016 How old are you out of curiosity? Link to post Share on other sites
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