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Send me to TIME OUT I lost ALL self control

LilMama1097

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LilMama1097 Established Member

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I've been posting about mixed signals from my ex. I finally decided to stop guessing and go for it. I said something heartfelt to him, told him I missed him and asked him to take me back (banging head on the wall even typing that)

His response "why do you even ask when you understand the situation" and here is where I lay it.

Me: "I don't understand **** because you can't give me a straight answer and didn't even have the respect or balls to break up with me in person, YOU DID IT THROUGH TEXT. WE HAVE A DAUGHTER TOGETHER for Christ's sales yet I get zero respect. And no you NEVER EVER EVER named a reason with ME we couldn't be together. You said it was best we focused on our financial independence right now which I have $1,200. In savings right now, how much do you have? Oh that's right, you have NOTHING because you were asking me to borrow money a couple days ago! Let's try something knew okay. You act like a grown man and give me a grown man answer for once. Fk you!!!"

 

So as you can see, I lost all self control. I'm fine walking on egg shells around his little btch feelings while he disrespects me and I'm supposed to take it. I'm done!!

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Yeah self control is a tough thing to master post break up. I texted my ex every six days during the first month. Sometimes I was pissed and sometimes I was desperate. It's been four weeks since I've made contact though, and I truly do not want to speak to her for a loooooong time (maybe I'll see her at our high school reunion).

 

Getting dumped over text sucks. I didn't have a child with my ex, but still, you'd think at least a couple of years of dating deserves at least some respect. At least financial issues (as BS as that sounds) is at least somewhat tangible. I got "We just don't belong together." What the **** does that even mean? Tell me why don't we belong together. Your inability to critically think or express feelings is why you're failing school.

 

Sorry tangent. I forget how long you've been post break up, but that anger slowly starts to go away the longer you stay NC, and you'll soon forgive him. That'll make you feel more at peace with the whole situation even if you're not over him.

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