How 'friend zoned' are you for girls to send you nudes with no sexual connotations?

[Wisecrack]

I.e. they want to show you how bad their tan line is or how bad a post run chafing has left them so they shoot a photo of them naked or in just lingerie or just out of the shower as if to continue the conversation as normal and there is no sexual undertone what so ever prior or during the conversation.

 

Or am I reading things wrong? Input girls? Do you ever send these type of pics to even close guy friends?

 

I must be the most clueless guy in history.

[soph-walker]

I.e. they want to show you how bad their tan line is or how bad a post run chafing has left them so they shoot a photo of them naked or in just lingerie or just out of the shower as if to continue the conversation as normal and there is no sexual undertone what so ever prior or during the conversation.

 

Or am I reading things wrong? Input girls? Do you ever send these type of pics to even close guy friends?

 

I must be the most clueless guy in history.

 

Your lady friend could be testing the water..idk

 

It seems to be a bit of a self obsessive thing that girls do these days...my female work colleague (21yo) was always snapchatting me pictures of herself in a pose, to the point where I had to tell her I deleted my snapchat account just so she stopped sending me bloody selfies and ridiculous pics.

 

What I'm saying is..she sounds like she's a little self involved and immature.

[Els]

You ARE the most clueless guy in history. I wouldn't say they necessarily want a R or even sex with you, but it's clear they desire your sexual attention if they're doing that (perhaps just to stroke their ego).

[Lois_Griffin]

Sounds as though they're just fishing for compliments from you. It seems to be what all the young girls are doing - constantly posting pictures of themselves in sexualized situations just to have their egos continually fed.

[candie13]

worse, mate, she's in it for the ego stroke. I'd just say "really bad tan line, I agree" and continue the conversation like nothing happened. She's doing it because she's dying to hear you say "you're so pretty" or "you're beautiful" or "you're sexy". **** her, she can get that from any other man. I'm sorry, that's using you. I don't use my friends. Oh and she ain't friends with you, either.

 

There are women who really friend zone men, then send them nude pics only to jerk their chain and make them go wild, for the pleasure of seeing them frustrated, for their ego boost. While I am sure that there are techniques to get that girl to uncross her legs in the real world, my advice is to follow the path of the least resistance and keep things clear: friends, potential lovers and lovers.

 

If she ain't a potential lover, she should act like a friend and if she ain't your lover, acts like a friend but behaves like a potential lover, you can be sure she ain't any of the three. Really, mate, keep it simple. Peace of mind over a piece of arse.

[Wisecrack]

Thanks all! Mmm I see where everyone is coming from and yes Elswyth, I am the most clueless

 

The thing is if this was just some other random girl off the streets, I'd see right through it. But this is someone who sat with me at a local park bench for 12hrs when a family member past away a while back and I was just empty. Not to mention the countless times after work she then dropped by mine to help me study and catch up with all my missed work. She's actually one of the good ones. Yet I don't think there has ever been anything romantically bought up between the both of us although when we start drinking things have been questionable.

 

Hence my amusement at this.

[road]

Thanks all! Mmm I see where everyone is coming from and yes Elswyth, I am the most clueless

 

The thing is if this was just some other random girl off the streets, I'd see right through it. But this is someone who sat with me at a local park bench for 12hrs when a family member past away a while back and I was just empty. Not to mention the countless times after work she then dropped by mine to help me study and catch up with all my missed work. She's actually one of the good ones. Yet I don't think there has ever been anything romantically bought up between the both of us although when we start drinking things have been questionable.

 

Hence my amusement at this.

 

 

 

 

Maybe you are that clueless and she is flirting and you do can not see that.

[candie13]

Then she might be hitting on you. Get the clue and ask her out

[phineas]

chafe marks?

Tell her to come over and you'll put some cream on it.

 

sunburn?

Tell her to come over & you'll put some aloe on it.

 

She declines, tell her nobody likes a tease.

 

I've hooked up with women friends in the past but when I tried to hook up again or date them they shut me down so I backed off.

Then they would run hot & cold sometimes taking anything I mention and use it as an excuse to mention we had sex.

I acknowledge it but mostly I gloss over it.

 

Same with women I know I haven't slept with. They will talk about how they trim their nether regions or talk explicitly about sex or what-not that I have no desire to talk about with someone who isn't going to sleep with me.

Or sometimes will tell me they are in some state of undress and ask if I want a picture then say j/k before I can respond.

 

I basically don't let it phase me.

I wait until they are around me then I try to sleep with them (again).

 

sometimes I succeed.

When I don't they stop doing that nonsense because they realized I'm not going to waste my time on women just looking for attention.