xxoo Posted January 4, 2016 Posted January 4, 2016 I don't think I'm a woman that other women hate, but I don't fit in with "the girls". I like mixed company. I like people that like mixed company. I've never been in a group of "girlfriends", and my husband doesn't hang out with "the guys". Not everyone enjoys that stuff, and that's ok. Thinking on the topic of the woman other women hate, and thinking of my example of the gorgeous, bawdy single woman I'd been warned about....I wonder if the truth was that the men hit on her, not that she was after the men. She has an obvious sexuality to her, sexy when not even trying. That doesn't mean she actually wants the other women's husbands 1
Author Dreamworld Posted January 5, 2016 Author Posted January 5, 2016 Thank you for the diverse opinions. really interesting! Yeah I guess it ain't helping that she also is also very very pretty. See I guess for me just like people said here I am not one who particularly enjoys being part of a large gaggle of women either. I also like mixed company and personally do best in.one on one situations male or female. I am sort of a drifter who also loves being by herself which is probably I dont mind reaching out to people who dont always "conform" to a particular type of group hence I guess I am the only woman who doesnt find this girl threatening? Then again I havent really seen how she interacts with men so maybe there is something going on there. plus I am not one to judge people by what others say but it was just alarming how these seemingly nice women went all crazy when this girl was mentioned. we all went to school together too but i didnt know her too well then so.... Thanks again!
Author Dreamworld Posted January 5, 2016 Author Posted January 5, 2016 There are women out there who are so beautiful that they really can't find female friends who'll stick around for long because of the jealously they feel for her. Is that what you are talking about? Or are you talking about those women who mostly have male ''friends'' under the excuse that ''most'' women are catty and that guys are much simpler to deal with? The latter. but this girl is beautiful as well. the thing is i have seen drop dead gorgeous women be adored by both men and women so I dont want to believe we women would just hate another woman simply because she was attractive? Well i guess those with some issues may be that way..
JustGettingBy Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 Something that I just realised actually, with individual women I tend to either click extremely well with them and bond instantly, or despise them entirely. There is rarely an in-between. This is true regardless of if I'm attracted to her, although if I am I tend to be a little slower on picking up on the fact that her and I don't click. With other men it tends to be 'yeah, I get along with him fine', but rarely an instant bond or instant hate.
Toodaloo Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 I don't think I'm a woman that other women hate, but I don't fit in with "the girls". I like mixed company. I like people that like mixed company. I've never been in a group of "girlfriends", and my husband doesn't hang out with "the guys". Not everyone enjoys that stuff, and that's ok. Thinking on the topic of the woman other women hate, and thinking of my example of the gorgeous, bawdy single woman I'd been warned about....I wonder if the truth was that the men hit on her, not that she was after the men. She has an obvious sexuality to her, sexy when not even trying. That doesn't mean she actually wants the other women's husbands Thinking on that I have started to ponder if these women heard the rumors that their girlfriends were spreading and took it from there? I have to say if I heard my husband/ other half was hanging out with a supposed nympho I would have a little deamon on my shoulder telling me to get him away. But then I would also know that is my insecurity and what will be will be... I don't know why I should be a threat but clearly some see me as so.
Eternal Sunshine Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 I don't fit in well with other "girly" women because the topics of conversations revolve around hair/nails/clothes and there is just too much gigling. My closer female friends are almost always tomboyish. Occassionally I would come across a woman that I feel a strong instictive dislike for apparently no reason. It's not related to looks. Usually these women use sexuality and emotional manipulation to take control over men for their own gains. It's in the tone of voice, body language and something subtle that I can immediately pick up on. Nearly always it turns out that these women won't think twice of sleeping with married men, their friend's boyfriends and the like. Men are totally blind to it....
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