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Hi, i am looking for advise please when it comes to men, i met a fantastic guy a few weeks ago, and really like him. We met up a few nights ago and had a brilliant night, however my last partner was also there (a one night stand), and I didnt like the way he treated me so i told him so. (not in front of the new guy) . Anyway didnt think anything of that, till I text the guy i really like, asking him if he fancied meeting up. He told me that I had made the wrong choice, and the first choice wasnt him and that he is no second prize so no. I text him and said sorry that he feels that way and he is no second/consolation prize at all and that he is an awesome guy etc and I really like him and would love to see him - and have had no reponse at all. Please can you help - advise needed. thankyou

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Hi, i am looking for advise please when it comes to men, i met a fantastic guy a few weeks ago, and really like him. We met up a few nights ago and had a brilliant night, however my last partner was also there (a one night stand), and I didnt like the way he treated me so i told him so. (not in front of the new guy) . Anyway didnt think anything of that, till I text the guy i really like, asking him if he fancied meeting up. He told me that I had made the wrong choice, and the first choice wasnt him and that he is no second prize so no. I text him and said sorry that he feels that way and he is no second/consolation prize at all and that he is an awesome guy etc and I really like him and would love to see him - and have had no reponse at all. Please can you help - advise needed. thankyou

 

Actions speak louder than words -- and you communicated your message that way. Nothing you say after that will change that. Chalk up to lesson learned.

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