fruit01 Posted January 2, 2016 Share Posted January 2, 2016 Hi guys. I don't know what should I do next in my relationship. Please help. So me and my ex-boyfriend, we went official in a LDR for 1 year and 8 months. Right before we actually ended our relationship. We had a break in our relationship for about 7 months. During that time, I tried to contact him again but He became like a different person, like he didn't want to talk to me at all. I always initiated the conversation; and it became like a one-sided relationship. Finally, he ended the relationship. So I went to NC rules, and I thought we could still be together. But soon after I found that he moved on. So I contacted him back. He said he still loved me but we couldn't be together. Should I try to hold on to him or should I move on? Or should I try to visit him (but it will be in 6 months away)? Thank you again. Link to post Share on other sites
MzLady Posted January 2, 2016 Share Posted January 2, 2016 OP... you have to move on. He's told you that it won't work and that he has moved on with someone else. You also said that you initiated all contact and the relationship became one-sided? Why are you holding on to this guy? Please have some self respect and move on... just as he has. Sorry you're going through this, I wish you the best of luck. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted January 2, 2016 Share Posted January 2, 2016 OP, it's over. He's not interested anymore. Time to let go. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted January 3, 2016 Share Posted January 3, 2016 It's a little too late to go visit, you should have thought of that a year and 8 months ago. Link to post Share on other sites
KaiKass01 Posted January 6, 2016 Share Posted January 6, 2016 Hate to chime in with bad news but I have to agree...sounds like it's over. Moving on is the best thing to do and time heals! Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted January 6, 2016 Share Posted January 6, 2016 I wish people would get it through their heads that "going no contact" is not a strategy to try and lure a wayward significant other back. The whole idea of going "NC" is to give YOURSELF the time and space to heal so you can move on. There are several very good guides on this site that have been written/compiled by others who have walked in your shoes. Here's a good one: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/470829-all-new-2014-no-contact-guide Read and heed and you'll be better off for it. Best, TMichaels 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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