Snikers Posted January 2, 2016 Posted January 2, 2016 A few months ago I found out that the my boyfriend and man I recently had a child with was cheating on me. As soon as I found out and left he completely abandoned the child we have together. A week or two before I found out about the cheating he took my hoodie and PS4 with him (he slept over a few times a week) without my permission. He always left extremely early in the morning to go to work so I was exhausted when he left, told him to put my stuff down and fell asleep right after thinking he'd listen but apparently before he left he grabbed them and left. I wasn't extremely angry at the time about this cause I figured I'd get it back the next time I saw him which I knew would be in less than a week but I found out about the cheating before the next time he was planning on sleeping over. Ever since he's been avoiding me. He won't pick up my calls, won't respond to emails, won't see me in person. I texted him saying I wanted my stuff plenty of times but he won't reply. I know he's getting the texts though cause I called his best friend and he told me he's ignoring them. I was willing to let this go cause I figured my ex would finally come take responsibility and co-parent with me so that we could both work and take care of our son but he refuses to help out at all so I've been forced to quit my job since nobody else can watch my son. My ex also refuses to pay his child support. I really need the PS4 back cause I need to sell it to make sure my child is taken care of since I no longer have an income and I'm slowly going broke. How do I take care of this? I have proof of purchase but his friend told me that if I take him to court my ex is just going to say it was a gift even though it wasn't.
Shadowburn Posted January 2, 2016 Posted January 2, 2016 You need to stop texting him, forget about the hoodie and PS4 and to file for a child support from this loser. Best of luck and please get away as quickly as possible from this poor excuse of a man.
d0nnivain Posted January 2, 2016 Posted January 2, 2016 The total value of this stuff is what, $500? I suppose you could go to the police & file a stolen property report but he's going to respond that it was a gift. Do you really want to throw your baby's father into jail where when he gets out it will be harder for him to be employed & support his child? I'd let it go & focus on what's important: Your child's well being.
Cherryz Posted January 2, 2016 Posted January 2, 2016 Every story have 2 sides. But you busy looking for this little stuff. Instead of worry about your kid and bigger stuffs. How old are you guys? Leave him with this stuff and focus on the next steps to provide for your kids and the child support and professional help to help you guys co parent.
Recommended Posts