lindls Posted January 1, 2016 Posted January 1, 2016 I had been dating a guy for several months, we are from the same home town, just didn't know one another when we were growing up (I honestly didn't even know who he was growing up). We currently live about 3 hours away from one another. We met through some friends and he seemed to have more of an interest then me. After getting to know him better over the course of a few months we went on our first date. He seems to be very honest, very much a straight shooter with no BS. We saw each other every weekend this past September. In October he had a lot going on with work and we would be apart for 2 weeks or so, but had made plans to do something in the middle of Octover. With his job he was working odd hours (side job doing harvest for farming) which is total opposite of my 9-5 job, we didn't get to talk much and obviously didn't see one another. I felt a distance emotionally but still made a valid effort to try. I didn't end up seeing him that weekend we had planned in Octover and our relationship ended (he chose to, choosing to focus on work and told me he couldn't give me the attention I deserved). I didn't beg for another chance, I said my peace and immediately went NC That's the breakdown for our relationship, in the past few weeks he's been reaching out. First time wanting to see me over Christmas when we were both in our hometown (he only reached out one day to actually try to do something, which didn't work as I had to go to the airport to pick a family member up, it was my first night back in town and my family member got in at midnight and I didn't get to town until late). I did wish him a merry Christmas and he replied but I never heard from him again while I was home (and I had told him my days i would be home). I didn't try to make plans to meet up. Then yesterday he was snap chatting me and texting me (didn't mention seeing me again), just small talk. I'm not trying to win him back, i feel he should be the one trying since he ended it. id just like to hear insight from LS members to have an idea of what he may be thinking. I don't think he's looking for a FWB (we never had sex due to his religious beliefs)
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